have a healthy relationship

How I did it: Somehow after seeing my parents divorce and being abused as a child, SOMEHOW, I found the most amazing guy that treats me great, communicates with me and loves me for who I am. We're engaged now. Read how I did it…

How I did it: I met a wonderful man almost 4 years ago. I never thought that I would meet someone that was this perfect for me. It does take a lot of work, it did not just show up on my door step. We are all humans, we all make mistakes, we all have flaws. People have to learn to love eachother, no matter what. I mean I totally understand that some people just are not right for you and I've been through relationships where it has been that way. Never&n… Read how I did it…

How I did it: So, let's start by saying: this relationship did not end in "happily ever after" or marriage or moving in, etc.  We broke up.  That's OK.  The relationship was a process of growth for me and I love the person very much.  He loves and cares about me too.  Unfortunately (and fortunately), part of having a healthy relationship is to realize and acknowledge compatability, strengths, weaknesses, what works for you and … Read how I did it…

How I did it: I had confidence in myself, to begin with. I got blessed with a man who is confident, motivated, a hard worker and honest. We have had tough times, but we are both the type who want to talk things out and work on our relationship rather than just part ways because one of us doesn't get exactly what we want. We listen to each other and try to respect the others opinion. We have both grown tremendously and changed in many ways. We have matu… Read how I did it…

How I did it: I wasn't focused enough and my priorities weren't in line. Once I figured out exactly what I needed/wanted, everything else fell in line. It took a bad experience to find out exactly what was the most important thing in the world to me, but I'm glad I know now. I'm so focused on us and shaping our future together. Before I had only focused on shaping my future - by myself - because I had fear that we'd seperate. Having that kind of additu… Read how I did it…