be a good mum

i am 18 weeks pregnant and i just want to be a good mum

I am 15 years old and i am desperate for a baby when i am 16,i am scared but exited,i need advise on how to be a good mum,i feel as if i am still a child myself,but i really want a baby,its not the same as having a doll that crys or anything. no that you have to put alot off to have a baby,they will need food and love and care and i wont be able to use my teenage years like other teens going out clubbing and that sort of thing,i really want a baby,i have wanted one for a while now,i am not a virgin but at the moment i am using protection.If i found out i was pregnant on my 16th Birthday i would be so happy,it would be like a lucky day.I see Mums some Mums walking around with babys that have no clothes,i would care and love a baby.But the big thing is that i need help.

as much quality time as possible with my expected baby and child to be, money should’nt be an issue, just live to be happy and be happy to live..

seeing this smile, all i want to do is be a good mum for ever.

hello not a mum yet watching super nanny and nanny 911 to prepare! the guilt you speak of i know i will feel you arent a werido
seems that being ’’being a good mum’ doesnt seem to mean making your child happy all the time, you have to give disapine and follow though, otherwise you have got one troublesome teenager!seems alot of guilt invoved but think of this if your child was a close friend of yours & the same age would you let her/him run your life and guilt trip you?
this may all be rubbish but im 100% sure that the reaosn why there are so many spoiled brats in the world is because of guilty mums and dads and im going to try and not let my child turn into a brat, fingers crossed!!

Yesterday I made time to ensure I listened to my little boy when he wanted to talk – we switched the TV off to chat about how his day had gone – I let him help with the washing up (something I had previously put off thinking it was a recipe for disaster!) he felt very grown up (5yrs old!!) and went to bed a happy chappy telling me he had the best mummy in the world. Nothing can beat that – Now I believe the best things in life are free.

Being Mum, Dad, Friend, Teacher – there is more involved in being a Mum that i ever imagined! Its so hard to know that the choices made for the two of us are the right ones. Now almost ten years into the game, the choices are still as difficult as the day i began the journey. I LOVE 99% about being a Mum, the 1% is awful times i have been a part of his tears. The most rewarding role in the world. I hope my child will experience the gift of parenthood

My little girl has just turned 2 and I am constantly feeling guilty about things. I just want to be a good mum and it’s so hard sometimes. I feel guilty when she looks bored, I feel guilty when I don’t give her own way, I feel guilty when she would prefer to go to someone else, I feel guilty about everything to do with her. I want her to be constantly happy and if she isn’t I feel it is my fault. Does anyone understand me or am I being a complete weirdo?

This is the hardest job in the world this one is.