stop being indecisive

Whenever I was with someone, and they asked me “What do you want to do?” I would always reply with “I don’t know!” But now I’ve forced myself to speak my mind, no matter how difficult it is for me :]

I’m still terrible at this. I put it down to being Libran :-p

I’m a guy, and women don’t think its very manly that I am easy-going and don’t care which path we take, or restaurant we eat at: I put “who I’m doing it with” higher than “what we are doing”. But I have to start being more selfish; otherwise girlfriends will move on to that alpha-male guy who thinks the world revolves around him ;-)

I just don’t get it though. How come they can sit back and let me take control of all those little things and just tag along, but I can’t?

I can tell you exactly what I don’t want but not what I do want. (EX. no taco bell, Mc D’s, or Whataburger, but I don’t care where else you go for dinner.)

I need to start figuring out what I want and own up to it.

My boyfriend had me choose out of 2 movies last night. I really didnt want to see either so I bucked up and picked the one that looked slightly more appealing. Still having difficulties w/ this in other areas though. Someday, I will be a very decisive person :)

I’ve decided that I spend way to much time on deciding thing and not just going with the flow.

I choose. I finally choose. Next year I will be going to college for film studies & english. I want to do someone with non-profit organization.

sadly, this is an ongoing struggle. The most recent indecision? College, Uni or Work? Possibly another year at high school? All these options are open to me at the moment and I cannot decide for the life of me!

because often I really don’t know what I want. I don’t care where we go eat, don’t know if we should buy it, don’t know what to do about this or that! Grrr I want to know, I want to have an opinion more often. Im not a shy person so this doesn’t make sense to me why I am this way. I guess I am just really easy going or something and I’m just like “yeah, Im cool with whatever,” but it would be nice if I picked and was firm on where I wanted to go/ what I wanted to do a little more often!

I always end up with a bunch of people who want to hang out and go do something at the same time on the same day! I wish we could all get together as a group- but everyone is inviting me to different events. I don’t know who to choose to hang out with, and I end up just wanting to hang out alone instead of choosing. Maybe if I just say yes to whoever invites me first…but then the next person might have something better…I don’t know…......