learn how to let go

Why?? Why am i wasting time on thinking about non-important ppl and things.. Let go !!
Why blaming..Hating..Regreting?? Let go!!
Why Crynig instead of laughing??
Why living in the past and worrying about the future when you can live the present ??
Just let go !!

To “let go” does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.

To “let go” is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization I can’t control another.

To “let go” is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another, it is to make the most of myself.

To “let go” is not to care for, but to care about.

To “let go” is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To “let go” is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To “let go” is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To “let go” is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.

To “let go” is not to deny, but to accept.
I found this insightful text on the web. Hope it helps those who come across it. I will be meditating on this myself.

To “let go” is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To “let go” is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To “let go” is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To “let go” is to fear less and love more.

Well, from time to time it is difficult for me to not take things to the heart. At this stage in my life I am gaining more and more awareness from every experience. I can see how my mind begins to react, my reactiveness, my discomfort with certain things. I am learning that thoughts are just thoughts.

Remembering that thoughts are just thoughts, and bringing back my focus to the origin of these thoughts has helped.

I have a long way to go.

It is not an easy thing when one does not have the inner resources necessary to move on. When after several years of life on this planet you realize that there are things that have been coming back, when one day you open your eyes and realize the problem now comes from not grieving your past properly…

who would have thought that things had settled but not dissolved into the great mixture that one is.

I get so hoplessly in love with crushes. When things don’t go the way I want them to go and I’m the one who get’s crushed, I have a hard time letting go! I really get hurt and I know that I should just let go but a part of me feels hurt bad…I’ll think about it all the time,the rejection, the pain of seeing him again,and the feeling of still wanting him!

I’ve never been able to do this… It’s something I’ dieing to accomplish… I need to let go of all my past anger and regret and move foward

I find that I have the tendency to hang onto thoughts, things, people, way beyond their time. I want to feel lighter. I am starting by just observing when I have this behavior and watch my thoughts. But most of the time I feel like an obsessive nut. We’ll see how it goes!

Time time time that is the only thing that works. It just takes time.

i really have to learn how to let go and move on, even though i know that this person is bad mouthing me if he says hello i still talk to him but i really need to get this person out of my life coz he is as toxic as toxic comes in more ways than one and i just wish i could tell him once and for all leave me the f—- alone forever. easier said than done at least for me.

i was holding on to the pain i caused him & the fact that he wouldn’t forgive me & i just wrote it all out and finally after almost 6 years it just left me. a feeling of relief overcame me. one of the best feelings ever but i’m not too sure what finally allowed me to just let go. it’s great though…