change our education system

My son just started kindergarten. I am already finding it so hard. He has already come home telling me that he was wearing his shoes the wrong way. Why is are society so focused on the way people look. I think it is terrible that it has gotten down to kindergarten. I also have just learned that he doesn’t get any playground time at school. Are we still trying to raise kids or just little adults? Childhood is supposed to be magical why do we want to push them so hard.???