learn to be good in bed.

“Love does not care for time or order”. Vatsyayana, the Kama Sutra

Kinda feel like I’ve graduated from the basics and moved to an intermediary course. Someone gave me this book that describes how to manually stimulate the G-Spot and I have to tell you it’s a fascinating read (not to mention the practical aspect of this). But….

Anyway for those interested the book is Ultimate Female Orgasms by Tom Leonardi

I’d be curious to know what your experience with this book is like and please keep it PG or I’d have to delete postings.

A little boy is playing with his new football and a little girl asks if she can play. He tells her, “No. These are for boys.”

The little girl runs into the house and tells her mother. The next day the girl sticks her tongue out at the boy and waves her new football in his face. The little boy angrily points to his boy’s bike and says, “Oh yeah? Well, only boys can get these!”

But the next day, the little girl has the same bike. The little boy gets furious, pulls down his pants, points to his unit, and says, “Look, only boys have these and your mom can’t buy you one!”

The next day he walks by and the little girl promptly pulls up her dress, points to her bits, and proclaims, “My mother tells me that as long as I have one of these, I can have as many of those as I want.”

The hardest part of this goal was finding a measure.
That I can keep it up for an hour straight doesn’t make me good in bed. That I can go at it for over 12 hours is more a measure of quantity and not quality.
So I guess the answer is that you should work at it every time and it gets easier as you get to know your partner (I guess it pays to be Monogamous).
The other thing I’ve learnt is that each time is different and it helps to clear your mind of other stuff.
I’m gonna call this a victory even though I have my bad days (and my really good days), I know on Average I do well :).

Gwen met Randy at a nightclub. They hit it off, so she invited him back to her place. When they arrived at her house, they went right for the bedroom.

Randy noticed hundreds of stuffed animals scattered throughout the room. Giant stuffed animals sat on top of the wardrobe. Slightly smaller stuffed animals sat on the window sill. Many tiny stuffed animals sat on the bottom shelf of her bookcase.

After they had sex, Randy turned to her and said, “So … how was I?” “Well,” Gwen said, “you can take anything from the bottom shelf.”