itsasecretI'm done with this for now
If i don’t want to know something i don’t have to tell them. It doesn’t mean i don’t trust them . It means i don’t want to share. 4 weeks ago
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itsasecretI have to try harder to ignore my father
or at least not say anything back because he seems to really want to start an arguement 3 months ago
itsasecretI do trust Jeff
Maybe I will start opening more to him. I don’t know why I haven’t more to him. I guess I thought too long it was going to last because of our differences and when I should have really started opening up I wasn’t ready yet.
I 'll let you know what happens after I call him or vice versa. 4 months agoitsasecretI really think Jeff is jealous of Nick
which doesn’t make any sense. He always asking me if I’m doing something with him. Also he seems to think he’s smarter than me which is annoying because I would never buy a condo I don’t have money for. I do have to speak up because it has been going for a few months and it’s getting on my nerves . Hopefully i can this month without yelling or something like that. I do like Jeff. He beginning to annoy me though. 5 months ago
itsasecretI have to figure out when it's time to let someone in ...
Sometimes I just feel if you open yourself your going to get hurt but then again if you don’t let someone in you could end up all by yourself. Jeff wants to me to be open with him. He is a good friend and everything. It’s just… I don’t know i guess i don’t think it will last and i don’t want to get hurt and like i said we have so little in common and even though we do have a good time i just sometimes think really how are we still hanging out. It’s not my insecurities. I don’t think he always understands me. I’m not saying it’s about to end but I don’t think I’ll definitely make the effort once I leave Randolph. I might but sometimes some of the things he says I just can’t figure out. It’s not because of him or any paticular person or people. You can be judged sooner than your ready to be if you open up. Even here sometimes some people are judgmental. I do understand but this isn’t facebook where we’re going to stay we’re too cool for you or something like that. I’m just really not sure. 5 months ago
itsasecretI can keep a secret but sometimes ...
it seems like i open upnmyself sooner than i should. Maybe I’m just too naive or want to believe in people. I’m getting better at this but now it seems like I’m guarded. Damn if you do damn if you don’t 5 months ago
mpr_8
It made me
Sane 
How I did it: I was tense in first half of the year and used to talk a lot. its dangerous thing for job, relationship and social as you end up revealing everything about you. Finally i changed the job which was causing much of the stress. and i started experiencing that my blabber has been reduced a lot. so i guess the approach should be 'understand what's making you tense or anxious , find the solution and make some efforts to control the blabbering.!' Read how I did it… 6 months ago
latentlexA question
I talk or ramble about things that interest me when around people, but I mostly prefer to be on my own. I tend to get hyper and nervous around people, and boom, I ramble. Any advice for how to shut up without being completely mute? Thanks. 15 months ago
latentlexI talk more...
when I haven’t been around people for a while and when I am nervous. I am pretty much always nervous and will talk sometimes out of sheer nervousness. I am going to set myself a certain number of words I can say and plan things out before I say (responding in a quick manner to questions asked is still okay. Maybe that will help me be calmer. 21 months ago
latentlexI don't talk that much anyway...
I am an introvert and I spend a lot of time on my own, but I still think, after watching people for a lot of my life, that we are bombarded by noise and “talk” (much of it seems to have no purpose or meaning either). I want to get into the habit of talking only when I really need to say something, and even then, keeping it short and to the point. 23 months ago
