I can tell that I have grown in this area because I could really see two negative relationships in a new light this Saturday.
These two are both full-fledged members of the Moan and Grown Society, which hadn’t struck me with such force till I spent time with them after an absence of some weeks. I was with them for just a couple hours and I was convinced that I needed to let these friendships fade when I left with a sense of relief.
An early clue that these were not healthy relationships might have been that they both wanted quick and intense intimacy that made me uncomfortable.
It was nice to have been treated to dinner and bday cake, but I left convinced that it is not worth being in the cloud of self-pity and victimhood that always surrounds them.
So now I plan to make time for those I know are positive people. TB and DB, SH, friend of SP?, old friends, MF, etc.
May 04, 10:09AM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments
I am so very thankful for having the few that I do have in my life. Now I would like to connect with positive people around the world. All over!
Dec 07, 2008, 10:35AM PST | 0 comments
started again
14 months ago
i feel like i’ve kinda started again moving to the city
with my old town i knew alot of people and i had alot of respect but my friends were always met through others
i feel like now im in a new place im making my friends on my own terms for the first time and slowly building a good friendship group
choosing to be friends with people who are positive and uplifting
sometimes its lonely and i feel like i dont have as many friends as i used to
but i think of the long term benefits and im sure it’ll really outweigh the initial setbacks
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as i say i’ve been doing well of late, going out lots, meeting cool people and generally having a good time, i hope i can keep this up
i’ve been saying to myself “tomorrow i want to meet someone who will change my life”
i guess thats always happening…
but its a positive way of looking at things…i think…
im not sure why this post is so unsure, lol
what a line, hahaha
im signing off
Sep 23, 2008, 08:51PM PDT | 0 comments
my classmates
21 months ago
They como from different fields in the sciences and all of them ask really great questions. I am so blessed to have been accepted in this program!!!! undo all the bad messages my parents programmed into menurture my spiritual self
Feb 19, 2008, 10:43AM PST | 0 comments
My classmates
21 months ago
I am taking a 1 year course on science writing and
Feb 11, 2008, 12:02PM PST | 0 comments
Matthew forgot that he even had this! wtfffff.
Its the truth
21 months ago
Yet – very difficult to discern especially in the beginning stages of meeting somebody.
Feb 06, 2008, 08:09AM PST | 3 cheers | 20 comments
I had been feeling isolated from positive people in my job. Now that I am taking a writing workshop on science and on 43T I feel better guarded manifest abundancemanifest my desiresmanifest prosperityattract abundance
Feb 04, 2008, 12:41PM PST | 0 comments
My family is always telling me That I can´t do stuff. Do not go to Med School(in practice for ten years) you cannot quit your current job, you cannot go against the current trends of thinking.
Jan 29, 2008, 05:36PM PST | 0 comments
Sami is extreamly heartbroken.
I went through my Myspace personal account and deleted a bunch of ppl. I post very personal blogs on there, and well all my pictures and such. Thats where I open up the most. I felt that if I had ppl on my list, that had access to that stuff, they read my blogs, look at my pics, but never say anything to me, they don’t deserve to be a so called friend. So step one, Surround myself with positive ppl on the internet.
done.
Next is real life.
Dec 12, 2007, 09:24PM PST | 0 comments
I find myself doing this more frequently. There are some people I just can’t avoid, like my family and so on, but quite content with the result of this one :)
Oct 11, 2007, 06:52PM PDT | 0 comments
