trust my boyfriend

i have been with my partner 2 1/2 years, known him for 4 years. we get on really great and he has always stuck by me through some really bad times that i know most blokes would be long gone.
the only thing is i have trust issues, its weird….i know he wouldnt do anything but tonight he left mine at 12am to go home as he said he was tierd, but at 1am i found out that he had gone round 1 of his ex’s house for an hour, they are friends and they split up long before we got together. straight away i accused him….i actually feel like he done something but he keeps telling me he only went round there for a chat.

what do you think? should i forget about it?

Feeling good, trying not to look at her face book, I kind of wish she would come and ask for him back, and then if he said no I would know he really doesnt want her and if he said yes I could get on with healing.

My boyfriend is incredible, hes gorgeous, smart, hilarious, the life of every party and the the most honest sweet, good hearted person ever, owe and he spoils me rotten, turns up randomly to cook me breakfast, cleans my car out, puts flowers in my room etc. But I am a COMPLETE PSYCO about his ex. They were recently broken up wen we meet and in the early dating he still was trying to get her back and really loved her. Now its 8 months on, he hasnt talked to her since the day we got together properly and he does everything to show me how he feels about me, but i still look at her facebiook, i still attribute every little unimportant comment to being about her (like the fact that he thinks selena gomez is cute and she looks more like her than me!) and wen i have been drinking i tend to accuse him of things like still liking her etc. even tho i can see how much it hurts him i am so wound up and insecure about it i cant help it. I think its because I have never been the “other” girl, I have always been the girl guys left their gfs for (that sounds horrible!) and wanted most, but wen we first got together he wanted her more, and i just cant seem to kick that feeling even tho i KNOW it is entirely unbased now. So I need to let go. I trust him completly in any other situation but wen i think of her i get all upset

Is the best thing to ever happen to me: loyal, patient, understanding, fun, humorous, and quite honestly he has a smile to put the sun to shame.

He has never done anything to make me question what a great guy he is. He has faith in me to do the right thing and love him and not hurt him. He deserves the same and that’s what love is, I want to love him fully. He deserves to be trusted.

I need to always keep in mind that I can’t control the future no matter how hard I try, so the very best thing I can do is to hope for the best and try. Falling backwards a bit and needing some reassurance doesn’t mean I’ve failed, nor does it mean he’ll leave me….and even if he does, it’s not the end of the world (boy is that hard to remember and accept). Also, even if he does want to go play video games, that is NOT the end of the world and it doesn’t mean our relationship is failing. One last thing…I can no longer use the excuse that I’ve been hurt a lot to keep throwing my insecurities on him. This makes me feel like I’m doing a good job of growing up :D

I Have been with my beloved boyfriend of 4 years (dec 14), We were best friends before we dated, i fell in love, as did he…. we were the cutest couple, still are.
we’ve gone through alot in the past (he went into the army (australia), we were seperated for 4 months)He Discharged The military and came home for me.
we live together now. We’re VERY happy.
BUT…. I have a trust issue, I DO trust him, I love him.
But… ever since i found a Myspace he made… Saying the opposite of who he was, saying he loved to go clubbing and that he was still in the Military, single etc and pictures of him from the army up…. I got extremely upset… i confronted him, he explained that he just did it to get jobs….. I really dont know what to think about that, but the pictures he had (taken by a Digital cam of a framed picture of him), were taken the day i went out with my friend… I asked when he did it, he said ages ago… Wrong, i had a look at the camera the night i found the myspace and saw the images on there, the next day he deleted them…. Now i still know he lied about that… it still bugs me to this day, which is around 1 year later…
Since then, ive seen in his Firefox History Anime Hentai etc.. he explains that he just wants to see what he could do for me… Ok, so why not just READ up on what ppl have said? There is no need to watch fake crap….

So …. I dont know what to do, i hadnt checked his Firefox History in Months apon Months until last night… and saw some angelina jolie boobs bullshit, he explained that he accidently clicked on it… Right.. Ok that could be true… but still, I just dont trust what he looks up on the net, I’m starting to think i’m not good enough for him in that department (sexual relations etc).... He’s told me, im all he needs and wants etc. But i just feel im not good enough and i somehow think he’s looking things up to maybe satisfy him, but i know i do? I don’t Know.. i think i have trust issues.. But i love him so much.. i need to fix these problem with myself… I just dont know how…

YEAH

I have such low self esteem that it RUINS my 2 year relationship with my boyfriend. If he so much as glances in the general direction of a pretty girl I go insane and it hurts me. We cant and DONT go anywhere because we never have a good time. Everytime he tells me things I feel like he leaves a part out because I would get mad and go off if he told me. I feel like he has girls that he flirts with and that he doesnt love me with all his heart like I need to be loved. I just want to trust him and i want to be happy. but that will never happen because i dont trust anyone. I feel lke the moment I put my heart out there and trust him, hes going to abuse that trust. I dont know what to do. I also think that I have trust issues because I talk to other guys! And I fell like hes doing the same. What is this website for?? is someone going to help me???

I’ve always had trust issues…I don’t trust easily because I’ve been taken advantage of (my own fault) so many times in the past.

I’m trying – really really trying – with my new boyfriend. Saturday he said he was sick and we’d go out today. Today I call and he says he’s still sick. I have to trust him that he is sick….because why would he lie to me?

disclaimer
I have had trust issues because when i was born, my father left me and my mother. I have been dating a guy named mikel for 15 months now… i was friends with a girl named ally but when i told her she was ruining her life by sleeping around and doing drugs, she decided to hate me.

Ally has been spreading rummors about my boyfriend, saying she is “with” him and crap like that… i thought she was lieing… until i got a text from her saying something that she would only know if He told her it.

Today i feel like i got my heart broken… i finally started to trust mikel, and this is where it got me. he didnt cheat on me (so he says) but he was mad at me for hanging out with a guy friend and that day (i was with my friend) he went over to allys house and hung out with her for 2 hours. my boyfriend is 17, bipolar and has a border-line personality. if u dont know what that means, it means he’s kinda nuts. so this morning i went to his house early and when i got there, he wasnt home. he had spent the night at his brothers and not told me. i called his mom and she let me in and i started to ball my eyes out to her, she is like a second mom to me. she told he that when she took him over to allys house she didnt know who he was visiting, Mikel had lied to her and told her that he was visiting a friend from his Laser quest team.

well when mikel got home this morning, after i was sitting on his couch talking to his mom i ran outside as he was walking in and started to beat the shit out of him. i have NEVER been as mad as i was this morning… i was screaming at him and he tried to deny everything but then… he got this look on his face that said “holy shit, my girlfriend knows”.

he said he did nothing but hang out with her… and for some reason i believe him… i can tell when people lie, and he looked me in the face and told me he did nothing and it really didnt seem like a lie.

so, i told him that id give him a chance, but if he lies about ANYTHING it’s over, im gone and not looking back. if u took the time to read this… tell me what you think.

i’m a great girlfriend and every one of my guy friends tell me i give Mikel wayyyy more then he deserves. i cook for him, i watch sports, i deal with and accept his problems, i do everythinnnggg a gf should do. i even give him his space. but his insecuritys and fear made him loose everything. Im prolly mainly typing this to get it off my chest, but i hope someone will read it and help me…

i know there is someone else out there with this problem.. at least i hope there is.

I have a very hard time not feeling uneasy when my boyfriend goes out with his friends. He has invited me out before and they talk about work stuff and I am usually the only girl, so it’s not that fun for me. I still feel very uneasy when he goes out and he does it a lot. Most of the times I am not invited because it is only guys from work going out. Do you think space is important, and we should have time apart from each other to go out with friends….even if it is to a bar with the guys?! I don’t know how to get past this…