Get married....and STAY married

I got engaged on Dec 17th 2008 and we’ve set the date for Oct 17th 2009. He’s the one. He’s such a mature, caring, responsible, and HILARIOUS man. I’m looking forward to spending THE REST OF MY LIFE with him!

i want to get married to my boyfriend when we are older and finacialy stable. this will help to stay married..

to stay married would be wonderful

I’m getting engaged!!!

undeniable facts, i love my sweet furry man and i cannot sleep without him.

when i first got married, i had so many doubts on how the relationship would turn out but being parents, i see the man and i like what i see.

no, not post preg horny hormones talking. it’s strange and awkward to talk about it but i feel the lurve.. i feel the lurve and i have developed alot of respect for him.

he’s a very hands on dad, changes her diapers, lets her yank out fistfuls of chesthair for giggles, looks after me when i’m sick, (finally) combines our laundry, remembers to leave the toilet seat down most of the time, gets me water, makes me milo and nestum for breakfast, buys me food when i feel like it. he makes me laugh, he makes me cry, he makes me fold his briefs and boxers into anal retentive rectangular parcels and make his side of the bed. He asks me what’s the point? I tell him there is no point to it but i like doing it just like i do him.

what’s not to lurve? love and marriage shouldn’t be calculated accordingly to how much either partner contributes, everything should be done willingly. I’m looking at my marriage as a blue chip investment, everything we go through is like buying a lot of shares, sometimes the value dips but we hold onto each other and by holding on, interest compounds, the little things we do for every other is like dollar averaging.. it adds up. At the end of the day, it’s quite an investment.

I’m glad that a year into the marriage and 10 years after we met, there is still love, there is love, respect and there is friendship.

He is still no doubt, my best companion to sleep in with.. dammit, we’re both so slothful, we’re made for each other. :D

i had this quote about love that i read in a Susan Kurosawa book (see http://aww.ninemsn.com.au/article.aspx?id=304449)

love is a “a life of cosy intellectual companionship, haphazard domestic arrangements and culinary creations”.

our home will be ready in 3 years, i wonder how many times will i burn down the kitchen with my ill attempts at experimential cooking..

mew

Haha, I’m a little young for this, but I’d still like it!

I want nothing more than to set an example of a hard working loving marriage.

We are reading a book called Night Light by Shirley and James Dobson.
It is a nightly devotional and we are 9 weeks into the book.

We read it every night together and end in prayer together, I love it.

Who doesn’t want to find that special someone to share the rest of your life with?

I wanna be the old couple you see together that is so comfortable with each other that spent most of their life with each other. I want to marry someone who is going to love me for me and that I will love forever. I feel like in today’s world there is too much pressure to just give up when a marriage isn’t going the right way. I hope I haven’t messed up.

I want to marry my best friend, and this has become extremely hard for me. It’s brought me to a big turning point in my life. I’ve known this person since I was 10 years old. We went to elementary school, jr high/high school, and college together. We really didn’t become close until college. He really turned into my best friend. I tell him everything about me, we spend all our time together and speak and see each other everyday and I guess I fell in love with him. I always wanted to be with someone that I could just be happy with every day. I didn’t want it to be about sex, or looks (even though i think he’s the hottest thing since sliced bread), or anything else. I just want it to be about us.

Now it’s hard for me. One night we were together and we did it hehe.. and I thought that was it. For a while we were together but he said he didn’t want it to mess up our friendship and he wasn’t ready for a commitment.. So I accepted it. Then I found out that I was pregnant. I’m still pregnant and things are great now.. It has really tested our friendship, and even now he still doesn’t want anything more than friends and that kills me, but I accept it. And I just pray that one day if it’s not him that is supposed to love me that I will eventually find that one person for me. But I don’t know who could make me happier than him. I just want our son to know that even though we aren’t together that we do love and care about each other, even as friends. And that we never regretted what happened between us. Any advice!? Move on or wait!? IDK!

i wanna fall in love. REAL love. i want that to stay. i don’t believe in divorce unless (you get cheated, beaten). I would very much to achieve this goal.

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