We are just starting to get the RSVPs in. Now less than 80 days away. Have to reserve chairs, place cupcake order, place catering order. OMG. Dying.
How to survive my wedding
How I did it: - relied on the graciousness and generosity of friends and family
- remembered that once upon a time, my marriage would have been illegal. And that that attitude is still being applied to gay people, simply because homophobes think that they're a superior species. And that very soon this will change.
- made jokes
- swallowed any resistance to things I had, because it would just make things longer.
- had wifi at the party
- changed into my own clothes for the party
- watched lolcat videos at party
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Ok, so the planning is going pretty well. Things might get more chaotic toward the end, right before the wedding, but once I got the dress out of the way, I felt better. This weekend, my fiance and I are going to see my parents together, and his mom and dad and brother and sister are going to meet us there. We’re ALL going to be in one house from Friday to Monday. This could be totally nuts or a lot of fun… or both. And even though we live together, my parents are making us sleep in separate bedrooms. GUH! But I am not going to complain and whine about it. If it makes the parents more comfortable and makes the trip easier, fine.
My bridal shower is this weekend. Im freaking out. I don’t like being the center of attention. I just want it to be the day after the wedding. Hopping on the cruise ship and sailing off to Bermuda!
And once i’m there, that day, will i be able to keep it all together? This is why it’s a goal.






