TearsOfSun somwhere above the messages lies a wor(l)d of my selfishnes
The most important thinf for me was getting a calendar scedule, in which I keep my daily obligations and it also helps me remember what I”ve been doing and when.
TearsOfSun somwhere above the messages lies a wor(l)d of my selfishnes
The most important thinf for me was getting a calendar scedule, in which I keep my daily obligations and it also helps me remember what I”ve been doing and when.
I feel so overwhelmed. I have bills I cant pay and pile up. Im l8 on rent. my phone is shut off and i cant pay it. I do hair and just changed to a new salon. I have potential to make more money here but im on str8 commission and it has been real slow.
I never really made much money before. I know what I do is good, and I have no idea what slse i could do. I fore sure cant go back to school cuz of my credit and i owe for beauty school still.
I also just started a relationship that has gotten serious with a girl and I feel I cant get my shit together for.
It feels like Im sinking, and Im way over my head.
FlyLady.net helps. A lot. Well, so far. We’ll see how the long term motivation pans out. I’m the kind of person who needs logs, schedules, plans, and MOST OF ALL… gold stars next to my name… FlyLady provides all of the above. If you’re the type who only needs a biscuit whenever you do a trick…
Ok, this goes towards two goals. I sat down yesterday and worked on my budget. I figured out where my money went over the last 2 months, and what I need to do to get everything back and get myself back on track.
At this time I have a new budget, that I’m going to strive each and everyday to keep to. I have included all bills, gas money (with a little cushion) Extra payments towards my car, ( I would like to pay it off before my daughter gets her drivers license so that I can get a new one and let her drive this one)
I have started at work. I have revamped how I pull bids, what bids I pull, and verify my work. I have reestablished filings systems, and created forms for bid requests, allowing me to gather needed information quickly and in an easy to use format. I am also working or reformating how I do additonal work, and filing of that information.
Now I’ll start at home, and in My personal life
Because I am hopelesly messy! I would like to get all my belongings (books, records, magazines, etc) listed and kept in places where I can easily find then. Also organize my daily agenda, thus making most of my free time.