be a good husband

so much,, she is my life, my love, my lady, my queen, & simply my every thing…
“iam doing fine till now doing all that i can to please her and make her a happy woman,,”...
i will do all my best to stay this way…

“Amen”..:)))

I acted really inconsiderate yesterday. I met with her at my son’s Kung Fu class last night after work. Which means we had two cars with us. Usually she’ll take the kids home, but the kids wanted to spend time with me. :-) So, I drove the kids home and she took my truck. When we get home, usually, I’ll park outside of my large apartment complex and she’ll give me a ride to our one parking spot in front of our apartment. I wasn’t so considerate. I let her park outside the apartment and I went straight to the parking stall. She carried all of my heavy stuff from the truck to our apartment. And… I totally forgot to bring up her purse from her car. I’m so inconsiderate. She was pretty upset. I have to remember to keep her in mind. I’ll start there. Then I’ll see what develops. Maybe I’ll bring her something home on a daily basis; anything. Also what I can do, when I go into the kitchen, which is often, is to ask her if she wants something to drink. Later it will develop into other good habits of consideration.

This probably should be Number 1 on my list, but I was a single parent before I remarried. Anyway, I don’t think I’m too bad at this – just need to focus on it maybe a bit more.

Yesterday I decided to skip my evening run because our baby has cold and my wife was really tired after the day. Instead of running I cleaned the kitchen :-)

Well I’ve been married for 6 years and my wife is happy, so I’m going to mark this one as done.

I know I have too many goals and things I do that are good just for me. I also live too much in the future: I do too many things that make me be happier tomorrow, not today.

Now, “be a good husband” means to me that I am taking more time to really be with my wife and and our daughter. Oh yes, I can also take more time to do bit more of the boring household work.

When this goal is complete? Never, it’s an ongoing thing hopefully the rest of my life :-)

TO be the best husband i can be and to make my wife happy and proud to be with me. I have got to try harder

My wife is AWESOME and the rewards she gives are incredible!!!

Of course this will be an ongoing goal but I’m marking it complete here at 43T to shorten my list.

Luckily I’ll be at home most days for the foreseeable future because my wife is recovering from surgery and will need plenty of help around the house for the next month or so.

What was that vow all those years ago? “In sickness and in health…”