Do the NLP in Reality alignment for 2007

well overall this didn’t do much for me but bring up the past!
it wascool

Do you think that strangers feel at ease when you speak to them? Do you think that your way of feeling being judged is the same for others?
not sure how stranger feel most the time i never thought about it and if i do think about it makes me be self consious and i worry about what i say! so screw that! yes i do feel judged!

Do you generally encourage or dis-encourage others?
I try to encourage others i like to stay positive! I”m sure i dis-encourage others with out me knowing!

Are you satisfied with your physical appearance?
Heck yes! minus my psorisis but i can’t control that so i need to deal with it!

Are you satisfied with your energy level?
not one bit satified i even quit smokeing I have some energy but nothing noticable! I think i’m too lazy!

Do you tend to be happy, no matter what? Why?
Yes i tend to be happy no matter what why because of the laws of attraction! if i’m happy i’ll be even more happier later! and what is the point of being sad and upset! it don’t serve a purpose unless i release it in a creative way like painting and singing!
still i like to be happy and i am very HAPPY!

On the scale of 1 to 10, how healthy are you?
i think i’m a 7 or 8.. i have health insurance and got a check up my doctor said i could start taking multi vitimens maybe i’ll do this i have said i was going to and never started!

Name 10 activities you do not want to participate in again during 2007. When you’re done, next to each of these activities write the date after which you will not allow yourself to do it. You must make a different date to each, not having all of them for tomorrow.
This is hard!
1. I don’t want to have to scrub a bathroom again – after 2/12/07
2. i don’t want to with hold my thoughts after 1/1/07
3. I don’t want to forget about my monthly goals after 12/31/06
4. i don’t want to goof off more then 50% of my day at work after 6/20/07
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8.
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10.
okay that’s all i can think that i don’t want to do at this time! hope that works

For the question on the health, now write down what is it that makes you ill currently? Why isn’t your scale on the 10th permanently? Could it be that you’re only human, with physical limitations?
I don’t understand this! something that grosses me out and may make me vomit uncontrolable is salivia! like drool in stuff! It gets difficult to brush my teeth sometimes more so when i think of it! well that’s all i understand of this question!

If you would be asked to write down every single word you know and use usefully, how much of a regular dictionary would you be able to write? 10%? 4%? Just make an assumption, it will never be accurate.
2% if that! English is not my specialty!

Forbearance means patience. Would your vocabulary be extended or stay the same?
forbearance forbearance forbearance! forbearance
for bear ance forbearance!
ummm if i studdy this everyday for a week and use it at least 3 times a day my vocab would be extended but that’s not the way i work! but i may put it on my list of words that i need work on!
but i’ll try to remember it! :)

How would you define your “random tolerance”? What would it be like if you were only randomly tolerant? Is it really context related or is it a decision up front?
what is random tolerance? I have no forbearance with unthoughtful people so i have no tolerance no forbearance and i hate being intruped does that answer your question!

When was the last time (time stamp again) when a skill you thought is one of your strengths, turned out to be weak and deteriorating?
dude i feel this happends all the time but i never remember that stuff soory it’s too negitive unless i learned something and i don’t think i did! don’t cry over spilt milk!

How does it feel to be rejected? Describe the feeling, where does it start in your body and where does it go to? How strong does it get and when? Is it permanently strong? Could you make it stronger? Could you build it up to a point when you cannot suffer it no more? If you go beyond this point, theoretically, would that serve as a proof that you can be rejected and still alive?
Wow i haven’t been rejected in a while!
a photo of mine was rejected and i acted childish i felt viloleted for someone deleting my stuff! with out permistion it started in my mind then to my fingure to type then back to my mind! it was really strong at first notice! but it fades away and i forget about it!
but when i’m not in a mood i can handle rejection fine!

How many rejections will you be willing to take in 2007? 10? 100? 1000? Come up with a real number. Now double or triple that number. If the number feels comfortable, triple it again – you want to feel uncomfortable with the number of rejections you’ll be willing to take in 2007.
12 – 24 – 36 – 48 That’s it 4 times month i think i can handle with out going off the deep end!

Complete – Monday is Monday!.
and good morning! :)

Name one activity (even habit) that if you’ll participate in through the new year, you’ll feel embarrassed. Now, write an email to someone you really care about – WITHOUT sending it, just save it somewhere – and tell him about this activity. In the P.S section, write a commitment to email that letter if you find yourself doing that activity anyway…
being embarrassed is hard for me to identify! i mean i work in radio we do a lot of embarrassing stuff! but I’m not afaid of it!
okay i got one!
lol not sharing it tho!

How much fun should you have in 2007? Why?
well i work most the time and work is sort of fun for me so at least 8 hours a day! :)
Why? i work hard and i deserve it!

Do you deserve to have fun 100% of the time? no work needs to be done! and life isn’t about instant gradifactation

If you could change one thing in one other person – who and what? How would you go about in 2007 to change that one thing in this one person?
It would be ME come on not my job to change peeps!
i would change some of my embarrassing habits! with self displine

Do you really mean it every time you say “enjoy”? no i am a smart ass sometimes!

What would be the one non realistic fantasy you’ll give up on this new year? We all have non realistic fantasies, but some linger on and influence us too much. Being a rock star, for example, is a fantasy of many people… not realistic, because there are only a few rock stars out there, and none of them is your neighbor Jim. Taking this fantasy too long would mean?
yeah being a famous singer but i let that go last year!with a few others!
the others i’m keeping for motivation in my life! even if i don’t get it at least i tried! and just because it’s a fantasy don’t mean it can’t happen only we can make that happen!
don’t ever give up!
with my singing i dont’ want to be FAMOUS anymore but yeah i will still sing my heart out!

What would be the one realistic goal you have set up for yourself years ago but never accomplished, and you now have the feeling you will never make it real? Are you willing to give up on that goal if you know you’d be happy and satisfied in 2007?
NEVER I MEAN NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR GOALS! IF YOU DO YOU LET YOURSELF DOWN! JUST DON’T SHARE YOUR GOALS ANDYOU WANT HAVE PEOPLE TELLING YOU IT UNREALISTIC THIS QUESTION IS BULL SHIT!

Being calm enough is being __.
NON EMOTIONAL!

Fake it till you make it… what did you fake so far and didn’t make at all?
Fake it! fuck faking it not worth it!
honestly best policy!

Do people get what they deserve or get what they attract?
they get what they attract! Thanks to 2006 i see this now!

How much money does it take to realistically make you satisfied financially?
to cover my house hold expences to have some put in the bank and to be out of debt with a few hundred left over is fine with me!

Improving yourself takes effort and time or giving up on effort and time?
takes time and effort and self dispiline and love and forbearance and postive growth!

Make a list of your strongest skills. Make sure you have at least 5 of those written down.
1. dependable
2. creative
3. strong worker
4. paint
5. compose music
6. honest
7. leadership – at work

Now, give up on one skill. Cancel it as if you’re eliminating it from your know-how.
no! but i will ADD a new one!

Instead of the canceled skill, write a relatively new one.
as stated before i dont give up on what i’m good at!
but i will add one i’m
8. tap dancer!

Could you manage with the ones written down?
um no

How many hours during 2007 will you allow yourself for non productive activities / laziness? Make a number for the whole year. Now double it – that’s realistic. Triple it – does it get uncomfortable enough?
wow you mean i have to add this number I’m really lazy so that number will be high!
1095 hours—lol that’s 3 hours a day! lol i don’t want to double it this number is uncomfortable for me!

Describe one time stamp in your life that you wish you didn’t have. Now, imagine you have erased this time stamp from your past, as if it had never happened. Now, imagine you’re experiencing that same experience as in your erased time stamp, during 2007… could you handle this one? How?
Okay the time stamp is when i was in 9th grade my house burnt down!
no i couldn’t handle it it sucks when you lose a bird! i most likely would go and cry someone alone and get depressed! and fight my way out if it this time i would do it quicker if i know what i know now!

Do you believe you would become more compassionate in the next 12 months?
no not really I think i’m pretty compassionate!

Could you imagine yourself being loved to the point of disgust?
No the person loveing me couldn’t love me too much and i love him so much i don’t htink disgust would fall in to play!
but i have had this happen with someone who was so far in lust with me! i was disgusted by him!

What is more important for your self improvement – discipline or freedom?
self improvement!

Being rough or smooth emotionally? i would love to be smooth

Taking orders or giving orders?
learning giving so i’ll go with giving orders!

Knowing or learning from scratch?
umm i’ll just jump in learning is hard but just give me time and ill get it i may not say it so others understand but if it is learning for me i’ll understand@

Knowing or learning from someone else? learning is sweet~

Teaching or learning from someone else? learning

Accepting or rejecting contradicting beliefs?
I accept to listen to it but to have it applied in my life that takes thoughts and if it don’t go against my values then i’ll see!

If you sow you will reap… are you responsible completely to what’s going on in your life right now? If so, are you to blame for the mistakes and hurts and failures that might come to you in 2007? Who is to blame, if not you? Should anyone be blamed anyway?
as stated in my latest book are you up for the challenage! I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY EVERYTHING! how i handle things is the key!
no one is blamed for anything if i own a company and you screw me over that is my fault not the person who screwed me over now that i ahve applied this mind set to my life i don’t see it any other way!

If you sow but not necessarily reap… is there a reason for everything that happens to you? Is there a Karma or is it a random chance? Do you face life as is or as it should have been?
Your delt cards it’s how you handle the cards or how you play them! sooon as you realize that it’s your life and this is how it is and deal with it your fine!

Choose a point in your past and pretend you’re breaking your life to two halves – one before that point and one since it… is there a logic in the progress of the second half?
Yes haveing a logic boyfriend helps! and my life before him was starting to have some logic!

Imagine for a moment that a year from now you realize that 2007 has been your best year ever… now answer:
so far 2006 has been one of my best years!

Why? Why Not? Why Not You? Why Not 2007?
why 2006 has been the best year! i did a 360 from 2005 I have a GREAT job a GREAT passion of loving someone who loves me back!

If you could replace places with someone (wait, it’s not what you think), who would it be? Why would you want this person to be in your place? Do you think that if you ask them, they would agree? If you had to make a great presentation to convince them, which are the things in your life that you would hide? Which things are you going to emphasize?
I don’t understand this at all! let me just say i want no one to live my life! I have nothing to hide! really I’m that simple! even for a chick!

When you’re 80 years old, looking back on 2007 – which are the regrets you will not be willing to think about? How would you make sure you’re not seeding these regrets?
umm good question! how can you regret something that you haven’t did yet or wanted to do and dont!
I really can’t say mabye me not fully opening up and sharing my emotions!

Can you remember the most passionate and exciting experience you’ve ever had in life? Could you make it stronger right now, as if it’s happening all over again?
Oh yes and i do make it stronger every week or so! I love him so much and i have so much passion for him!

Who do you owe and why? don’t know but i owe some credit peeps and NC some money

Do you have insurance? On yourself? On a house? A car? 2 cars?
I have insurance on self and car

Do you invest in the marketplace? In what form?
No i keep my money myself

How much money did you earn in 2006? Including paychecks, gifts and winnings. with gifts and winnings 25

Where do you work, name and place? What do you do there? How did you get to work there? Who gave you the opportunity to do this work?
I work in radio – detroit as a sales assistant I drive my car to work I gave myself this opertunity to do this job by school by self knowledge and me turning in the resume~! my knowlege is a winner!

What are you afraid of? Which of these fears is not real enough? Which of these fears cause you to sweat just thinking about it? For how many years did you hold this fear?
i really can’t think of much that i’m afraid of fire water wind and earth are about it! they all are real fears none really make me sweat i guess life i held on to these fears!

Do you take criticism well? What is the first memory (time stamp maybe?) you can recall, in which you were criticized unfairly? Will you be willing to feel not appreciated again in 2007 if it means you’ll become stronger and better?

Criticism i’m an artist yes i was taught to take it well and still trying to do that! art class my charcole drawing was critizced not the way i wanted and they wouldn’t let me defend my self! errr… Yes i would take that feeling of not being aprpeciated to be stronger! i do that on a daily basis!

Do you belong to any professional association? Why yes or why not? I don’t know of professional association is that like a club of some sort! if so i’m a member to DA because i like to paint and draw in stuff!

Do you have a “to do” list made up? Really? Ok, go burn it.
Yes i have a todo list! make me burn it! i don’t see the point in burning my todo list!

What aspects in your work do you enjoy? Think hard now… what if you didn’t enjoy these parts, would you still work there?

I enjoy doing the differnt task i do! would i stay just for the people! not any more learned that lesson at tower

If you would make a picture out of your whole life, as if it had everything in it, and then make it larger and brighter and stronger – would that make you feel good or overwhelmed with disappointment?
that would make me feel the same! I know what i want i know how bright it is and in the large photo! it makes me happy!
and feeling of wonderful thoughts

If you would make a picture out of your best friend’s life, as if it had everything in it, and then make it larger, brighter and stronger – would that make you feel compassion or envy?

I would feel compassionate! I like my life very much and i don’t envy others for what they have they were delt different cards then i!

Consider this belief to be true – “life is a chaos”. Is it worthwhile to live fully even though it means living in chaos? Why? If not, why do you think your opinion counts?
umm good one
I think it is good to live fully because you had a part in makeing that chaos.. my opinion only counts with me! no one else!

Are you able to go alone to a movie, a play, a rock concert? Have you done this before? If you answered “yes” to the first and “no” to the second, it means you lied. Rethink your answers.

I would if i could but i’m not alone much! so try that one for size! I have eatten dinner alone a few times in restrunts! a movie really not into movies plays are cool but i don’t think i would want to be alone for that! nor would i want to be alone on a rock concert! but yeah most the time i would pass unless it was someone i wanted to see!
i mean if janis joplin was in concert and no one would go with me i would be there alone looking at her nose hairs! :)

False friendliness is worst than false hate. Are you nice to other people because the way you are educated or because you tend to believe that “it’s better to be nice because you never know when you will need this person to help you…”?

umm never burn your bridges yes i am nice to some people i don’t like because they are in my network of peeps i may need one day!
but on the other hand i’m hate being mean but that is the meanest thing someone can do!

Could you say no to a friend who wants to borrow money?
yes i could.. i never have much so they would have to get me on pay day for me to say yes anyway!

Could you say no to a charity request from a person who wears an Armani suit?
i don’t know what a Armani suit is but yes i could!

well that’s all for now!

Who do you owe and why?

Do you have insurance? On yourself? On a house? A car? 2 cars?

Do you invest in the marketplace? In what form?

How much money did you earn in 2006? Including paychecks, gifts and winnings.

Where do you work, name and place? What do you do there? How did you get to work there? Who gave you the opportunity to do this work?

What are you afraid of? Which of these fears is not real enough? Which of these fears cause you to sweat just thinking about it? For how many years did you hold this fear?

Do you take criticism well? What is the first memory (time stamp maybe?) you can recall, in which you were criticized unfairly? Will you be willing to feel not appreciated again in 2007 if it means you’ll become stronger and better?

Do you belong to any professional association? Why yes or why not?

Do you have a “to do” list made up? Really? Ok, go burn it.

What aspects in your work do you enjoy? Think hard now… what if you didn’t enjoy these parts, would you still work there?

If you would make a picture out of your whole life, as if it had everything in it, and then make it larger and brighter and stronger – would that make you feel good or overwhelmed with disappointment?

If you would make a picture out of your whole life, as if it had everything in it, and then shrink it, make it darker and weaker – would that make you feel relief or disappointment?

If you would make a picture out of your best friend’s life, as if it had everything in it, and then make it larger, brighter and stronger – would that make you feel compassion or envy?

Consider this belief to be true – “life is a chaos”. Is it worthwhile to live fully even though it means living in chaos? Why? If not, why do you think your opinion counts?

Are you able to go alone to a movie, a play, a rock concert? Have you done this before? If you answered “yes” to the first and “no” to the second, it means you lied. Rethink your answers.

False friendliness is worst than false hate. Are you nice to other people because the way you are educated or because you tend to believe that “it’s better to be nice because you never know when you will need this person to help you…”?

Could you say no to a friend who wants to borrow money?

Could you say no to a charity request from a person who wears an Armani suit?

Do you think that strangers feel at ease when you speak to them? Do you think that your way of feeling being judged is the same for others?

Do you generally encourage or dis-encourage others?

Are you satisfied with your physical appearance?

Are you satisfied with your energy level?

Do you tend to be happy, no matter what? Why?

On the scale of 1 to 10, how healthy are you?

Name 10 activities you do not want to participate in again during 2007. When you’re done, next to each of these activities write the date after which you will not allow yourself to do it. You must make a different date to each, not having all of them for tomorrow.

For the question on the health, now write down what is it that makes you ill currently? Why isn’t your scale on the 10th permanently? Could it be that you’re only human, with physical limitations?

If you would be asked to write down every single word you know and use usefully, how much of a regular dictionary would you be able to write? 10%? 4%? Just make an assumption, it will never be accurate.

Forbearance means patience. Would your vocabulary be extended or stay the same?

How would you define your “random tolerance”? What would it be like if you were only randomly tolerant? Is it really context related or is it a decision up front?

When was the last time (time stamp again) when a skill you thought is one of your strengths, turned out to be weak and deteriorating?

How does it feel to be rejected? Describe the feeling, where does it start in your body and where does it go to? How strong does it get and when? Is it permanently strong? Could you make it stronger? Could you build it up to a point when you cannot suffer it no more? If you go beyond this point, theoretically, would that serve as a proof that you can be rejected and still alive?

How many rejections will you be willing to take in 2007? 10? 100? 1000? Come up with a real number. Now double or triple that number. If the number feels comfortable, triple it again – you want to feel uncomfortable with the number of rejections you’ll be willing to take in 2007.

Complete – Monday is Monday __.

Name one activity (even habit) that if you’ll participate in through the new year, you’ll feel embarrassed. Now, write an email to someone you really care about – WITHOUT sending it, just save it somewhere – and tell him about this activity. In the P.S section, write a commitment to email that letter if you find yourself doing that activity anyway…

How much fun should you have in 2007? Why?

Do you deserve to have fun 100% of the time?

If you could change one thing in one other person – who and what? How would you go about in 2007 to change that one thing in this one person?

Do you really mean it every time you say “enjoy”?

What would be the one non realistic fantasy you’ll give up on this new year? We all have non realistic fantasies, but some linger on and influence us too much. Being a rock star, for example, is a fantasy of many people… not realistic, because there are only a few rock stars out there, and none of them is your neighbor Jim. Taking this fantasy too long would mean?

What would be the one realistic goal you have set up for yourself years ago but never accomplished, and you now have the feeling you will never make it real? Are you willing to give up on that goal if you know you’d be happy and satisfied in 2007?

Being calm enough is being ____.

Fake it till you make it… what did you fake so far and didn’t make at all?

Do people get what they deserve or get what they attract?

How much money does it take to realistically make you satisfied financially?

Improving yourself takes effort and time or giving up on effort and time?

Make a list of your strongest skills. Make sure you have at least 5 of those written down.

Now, give up on one skill. Cancel it as if you’re eliminating it from your know-how.

Instead of the canceled skill, write a relatively new one.

Could you manage with the ones written down?

How many hours during 2007 will you allow yourself for non productive activities / laziness? Make a number for the whole year. Now double it – that’s realistic. Triple it – does it get uncomfortable enough?

Describe one time stamp in your life that you wish you didn’t have. Now, imagine you have erased this time stamp from your past, as if it had never happened. Now, imagine you’re experiencing that same experience as in your erased time stamp, during 2007… could you handle this one? How?

Do you believe you would become more compassionate in the next 12 months?

Could you imagine yourself being loved to the point of disgust?

What is more important for your self improvement – discipline or freedom?

Being rough or smooth emotionally?

Taking orders or giving orders?

Knowing or learning from scratch?

Knowing or learning from someone else?

Teaching or learning from someone else?

Accepting or rejecting contradicting beliefs?

If you sow you will reap… are you responsible completely to what’s going on in your life right now? If so, are you to blame for the mistakes and hurts and failures that might come to you in 2007? Who is to blame, if not you? Should anyone be blamed anyway?

If you sow but not necessarily reap… is there a reason for everything that happens to you? Is there a Karma or is it a random chance? Do you face life as is or as it should have been?

Choose a point in your past and pretend you’re breaking your life to two halves – one before that point and one since it… is there a logic in the progress of the second half?

Imagine for a moment that a year from now you realize that 2007 has been your best year ever… now answer:

Why? Why Not? Why Not You? Why Not 2007?

If you could replace places with someone (wait, it’s not what you think), who would it be? Why would you want this person to be in your place? Do you think that if you ask them, they would agree? If you had to make a great presentation to convince them, which are the things in your life that you would hide? Which things are you going to emphasize?

When you’re 80 years old, looking back on 2007 – which are the regrets you will not be willing to think about? How would you make sure you’re not seeding these regrets?

Can you remember the most passionate and exciting experience you’ve ever had in life? Could you make it stronger right now, as if it’s happening all over again?