establish boundaries

I think having good boundaries are necessary. If they are too tight or too loose, that is not good. There is safety in having healthy boundaries.

Imagine raising children with no boundaries. These types of kids are usually very troubled. This is not the same as placing limitations on being excellent.

I’m learning that as I establish healthy boundaries, it allows me to become stronger. It says I will or will not tolerate certain things. One of the things is that it’s allowed me to have much better relationships with people as they know where I stand on things, as well as getting rid of toxic people in my life. It’s allowing me to have the life I want in a positive manner.

Not making much progress here. Hopefully I have recently worked some energy out of my system that was harmful to myself as well as some others and can get back to normal. I will try not to be too hard on myself and just keep moving forward.

It’s time to bring my behavior in line with my personal beliefs. My values can be summed up with about one statement: Try to minimize your own suffering and that which you may cause to others. I often find myself behaving in ways that significantly depart from my personal ethics. Time to reign it in!