Boyfriend
3 months ago
I want to learn to just let go of my past, his past, the things we say in arguments and the things we do.
How to just let go
It made me
sad 
". Life is about making the right decisions and moving "
How I did it: Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Lessons & tips: it may seem like the hardest thing you've ever had to do, but trust me you'll be the better for it.
Resources: good friends, a backbone, and prayer
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letting go
14 months ago
sometimes in life it is hard for me to let go of the little things. but is a goal of mine to stop worrying about the little things and focus on the big picture.
I did this once...
18 months ago
I did this once, when I did Sky diving. Its the only true ” let go” i ever did in my life. Once you have jumped, you have only one thing to do..just enjoy..it. It lasts briefly, but its really fun.
Untitled
22 months ago
Yeah I really need to do this one myself. I got so much baggage, it’s ridiculous. It also helps to have a good friend to talk too (near or far) but nowadays that’s hard to. It seems like everyone is out for his or her self instead of working “together” with each other. O well, we’ll all do it as long as we keep a positive attitude. Good luck everyone…
Untitled
2 years ago
A bad habit of mine! When something bothers me, it’s hard for me to just let it go. I usually stew in it and eventually blow up at someone…unfortunate. I need to just let things go!!!
rgioc needs to get rid of the jelly belly
Love Urselves!
2 years ago
I suppose Valentines day is a good day as any to let go of sum1 even if u still love them, no matter how bad theyve hurt u. Happy Valentines everyone! Love urselves! lol xxxx
True freedom
2 years ago
You have to take the brakes off the engine in your head sometimes and just let your emotions come crashing out. My prefered method is a few beers, an empty house and really loud stereo! After you let it all you feel better, then tell yourself you’ve done all you can to hit bottom it’s time to start coming back up.
Untitled
2 years ago
i’m doing better with this although its a constant challenge. As I get worked up over whatever I have an out-of-body convo with myself to decide if expending the energy is worth it.. it usually isnt.
Untitled
2 years ago
sometimes i’m a little tense when I dont have to be so my goal is to reserve my energy until I HAVE to stress.
acceptance
3 years ago
accepting the fact that no matter how much you love someone, that doesn’t mean that they will ever love you. maybe that’s what love is, taking that chance. you’ve just got to be willing to invest yourself without any expectations of reciprocity. you can only do what you can do, then you’ve just got to let it go and see where you end up.
