I think that self care is a very important factor in this goal for me. Which is unfortunate. I’d like to be able to be comfortable in my own skin, even when I’m a little bit overweight or unkempt. However, I find the opposite is true. I feel less attractive when I have hair on my legs or if I’m wearing frumpy clothing (which I frequently do—I’m a graduate student and I spend a lot of time at home). It’s funny. My partner could care less about these things, but I really find it alters my sex drive. So, I’m going to do my best to maintain a good grooming routine to make myself feel good. It’s also good to take the time to pamper yourself, so I’m going to consider it time well spent :) 15 months ago