think for myself and not care what others think

this goes along with the goal: saying “no” every time i feel like it and not feeling guilty.

i’m definitely getting better at saying no to people asking me to babysit. _{i have a life too, people.}

this also goes along with my “make decisions” goal. part of the reason i don’t like decisions is wondering what the other person wants. i don’t want to pick wrong! (sometimes i’m too nice..)
but i’ve recently realized that the other person is just glad that a decision was made. because they didn’t want to pick either. and if they don’t like what i decide, they can make their own decision.
sha-baym!