Get my ex back

My ex and I had been dating for about 4 months, during which time I decided to lose my virginity to him. Last week he decided to break up with me for no apparent reason and after we had hung out earlier that day and everything had been fine. I just want him back, all I do is cry myself to sleep, I don’t bother with how I look anymore because whats the point? I was reading online about how to get your ex back you have to ignore them for a while, but can anyone else please help me and give me advice? I miss him more than anything:(

Ok so here is my story…My boyfriend of 2 years 3 weeks ago told me that he didn’t want anything with me anymore without a reason or anything he just said he didn’t want a girlfriend anymore!! that broke my heart because days before he used to say he loved me.. we always went out had fun just him and me and just listening to him say all those things broke my heart….1 week after he broke up with me he told me to meet with him and we talked and he said he just wanted some time alone I said ok!!! on that Saturday he took me to the movies to watch a movie that I really wanted to see but like friends..and when we got there he seemed like he didn’t wanted to be there with me he had a boring face so I told him if u dont wanna see this movie then lets just go and he just said ok…that night I was so mad that I went to a club with my best friend who he doesn’t like and then later we went to the beach with some guy friends…well the next day he found out and he got really mad at me he started screaming at me he got reallyyyyyy jealous, and that he didn’t want time anymore to forget about him..I started calling him, sending him emails, and texting him like crazy, until he blocked my number. Sometimes he answers my emails nicely and sometimes he just doesnt talk to me I dont know what to do anymore he doesn’t forgive me that I went out that night he just said that I cheated on him and I didnt do anything bad I love him with all my heart and I know he feels the same way I just dont know what to do to get him back plis someone help me!!!!! my like is just not the same without him, i dont eat, sleep, or even go out please help me!!!

I was only with my bf for about 4 1/2 months. During this whole time, he had a very unstable job and almost NO money. He’s way in over his head in debt and is trying to find a better job…but in this economy, he’s had no luck so far. Anyways, on a personal level, he’s a fairly sweet guy, dependable, and honest. We’ve gotten along pretty well. We’ve had a few arguments – I can be kind of clingy and his lack of money bugs me a bit since I end up paying for almost everything. But overall, I think things were pretty good. Just last week he offered to stay at my place during the day and help clean/organize it after my move.
Well, he dumped me a few days later and it sort of seemed out of the blue. He kept saying it was just a bad time in his life to be in a relationship and that things were too unstable and that I was adding to the stress of the rest of his life. However, he also said that he didn’t really love me – he THOUGHT he did, but his gut was telling him he didn’t. He told me he still wanted to be friends, but I told him I wasn’t sure if I could do that.

So, my question is, do you think he’ll come back to me if I avoid contact and focus on bettering myself in the meantime? I’m not even 100% sure WHY I want him back. He wasn’t very romantic and not the most attentive guy. BUT…he’s a good guy with a good heart and good intentions. He seemed to really care about me and seemed like he’d never intentionally hurt me. Even though it does feel like he just ripped my heart out and stomped on it.

If we had been together for 2 years, I think there’s definitely a chance he would come back to me. But do you think after only 4 1/2 months it’s possible? Neither of us had dated anyone in 4-5 years before meeting each other. Any help or advice is appreciated!

I don’t live in California. I live in Canada. We did the long-distance thing for almost a year and it worked out great. Until he met a girl who lives in his city. Of course, if I’d found a way to legally move to the place I want to live anyway, I wouldn’t have lost him. No, I’m not better off without him. No, I won’t meet someone better. I believe in soul mates. I believe in destiny. I believe that this guy? He was mine. But because I wasn’t clever enough to change my own circumstances and find a way to do the impossible… I lost him.

we were dating like 9-10 weeks. too short period, actually. i wasn’t that much in love… he was hot flirty guy and i didn’t really think about him seriously. BUT he was the first guy who kissed me like that… Someday he told me he’s not in love with me anymore… and he never was… and he doesn’t want to hurt me, he really tried to build relationship, but it doesn’t work, something’s wrong, bla bla bla… then I realized i love him… too much to give up… so I want him BACK… and I’ll do it ;)

Sadly & painfully, this looks like a goal that I can forget. My ex just informed me that he’s moving to Oklahoma for GOOD. He says for him it’s going to be a new start. It just sucks because that “new start” does not include me. So I guess I have to hang it up :-(
I’m devastating CRUSHED at this. I love him more than anything in this world! I’d give my life for him but because I f**ked he’s leaving. Now I gotta spend the rest of my life with this regret.

Miss my ex. I’m so sad… the thing is nothing really happened, we just broke up. I sleep alone, i don’t have fun on dates, I’m completely uninterested in other men… I’M completely Devastated.

i broke up with my ex then after 3 months of trying really hard i got back with her, then she moved in but as we are young i think it didnt help and we broke up cos i just said i dont think we shud go out, but then didnt speak to her i felt awkward didnt know what i wanted but now i do, thats her

This guy named Jacob is my ex and he had an amazingpersonality and was hot i was and still am in love with him WILL SUM! PLZ HELP ME GET HIM BACK??

I just saw this guide on getting your ex back. Its suppose to be the best, does anyone know if it works? Its the site thats in my profile link.