be a best friend

How come whenever I consider someone MY best friend, they never consider me theirs? I used to have a best friend, and she actually appreciated me as her best friend and considered me hers, but it wasn’t the kind of relationship that I want.

When I see someone as my best friend, I go to them for advice, to vent, to cry, to laugh, everything. But they never do the same. My old best friend used to keep everything inside, and would never share her feelings with me, or tell me what’s going on in her life. I want someone to feel like they can trust me, and share their inner most fears, hopes and dreams with me.

I want to be someone’s “bestie”.

Having a best friend is the coolest feeling in the world. You can tell them anything. They are the person you turn to when all hell breaks loose and you cannot seem to cram it back into the ground. I always did have four best friends, but I just never really realized that I did until now. I feel horrible for doubting them because they’ve been with me all my life and mean everything to me. So, I recommend you do this because if you find a great person that you can relate to, you’ll be a very, very happy person. I assure you of that much.