not rely on other's for my own happiness

So that my schedule doesn’t revolve around my partner and when he is out. I want to do some things for myself. So, even though I am in a relationship, I want to be independent. I don’t think this is a bad thing, I think it will work out very well, from this point of voice as well.

I’ve done this way too much in the past and it’s left me feeling depleted when they’ve gone (or it’s caused them to go coz it’s made me paranoid they will leave.) I won’t let this happen again. I can only rely on myself to be, no one else can hand it me on a plate. (unless it’s cookies ;). )