flirt less

Well i was at a party with pelle on friday and i may have been very flirty… but i was also very very very very drunk

Well i no longer flirt with Dante- but is that because i never see him?
And i no longer flirt with pelle, not just because of the him and beth thing but im just not attracted to him anymore. And they are my two main people
i do think i generally flirt less!
Time to say i achived one more goal?

Well i fully intended to flirt less
but on my own terms
Now my main person for jokingly flirting with is suddenly all complicated
I have all ways tried to set him up with people… but not beth
so now he’s friends with benifits with her after last night and its really wierd

i mean he was always pelle, we flirted shamlessly talked about sex frankly but he didnt get any
from anyone
that was pelle

omg i think im actually jelous of beth..

I seem to give everyone the wrong end of the stick completly unintentionally. People tell my boyfriend that he should be worried about me and a close guy friend whom i have only seen as a friend but who i apparently flirt with insecently.
and i have lost count of the amount of people whom i have happily spoken to and a few hours later they seem shocked and hurt when they find out i have a boyfriend.

i have this really bad habbit of flirting with girls and i do it with out even realize it, this is the goal i want to work on the most because i hate flirting with girls…it hurts my girlfriend and i really really dont want it, there are alot of chicks that like me and i try not to flirt when they flirt with me, im getting alot better but i no im still a flirt…. i deff need to accomplish this

I’ve been interacting with guys this way for so long that I do it sort of without thinking. Like I know that what I really want is to meet someone real and someone special, but there’s the attention you get from flirting I guess. You aren’t alone then. I did this just the other night though, I knew I wasn’t acting the way I wanted to, I mean, I’d just met this person, but it’s so easy and then your body kicks in and forget it…

I’m a shameless flirt and I know it… So when people “take it the wrong way” and I can’t say no and I end up sleeping with… Anyone who asks… I get all pissed at THEM for asking… When, perhaps if I just were to try NOT flirting with everyone I meet, they might not ask… It’s at least worth a shot, right?

-Carrie.