gain more self confidence

because i have none =(

im proud of myself. I got confidence! I realized that when you look over what you have achieved in life and think about the good people in your life that love you and start to tell yourself that you are worth it … that after time you will start believing. Surely I got downs every now and then but then i call a friend or go to bed early and fix the problem with a good conversation or a good night of sleep.

I wish I was able to think of myself as beautiful, but that’s not the case at all. I am constantly thinking of how my teeth aren’t white enough. Or how my eyes are too big, or how I’m too tall. People are always telling me I’m pretty and gorgeous but I don’t believe them. even my boyfriend tells me the same thing all the time, that I’m beautiful, but I just don’t see it.

Many people I know would probably think I don’t need this… I come across as very confident, but in reality I am easily embarassed and overly selfconscious. I would like to learn to be more comfortable in my skin and to not worry about what others think about me.

The best hint I can offer regarding this particular goal is this: If you can sidestep your fear of hearing the word “No,” then there’s nothing to lose by asking for what you want. While learning this, I realized that my own reluctance was my most frequently-encountered obstacle. Learn how to suspend your own disbelief.

i think it took confidence to put this picture of me up here :P yay me

I ve been ballroom dancing since i was 14, changed to different club last year and they pay a lot of attention to presentation. I learned how to be confident about shaking my booty. I think thats a step in the right direction. But now im kinda stuck … i got confidence in dancing but confidence is missing in the rest of my life. I still think im not worthy and bad at everything else. Need to figure out how to get the confidence boost to cover the rest of my life …

I would love to be able to look in the mirror and say ” Wow your hot ” Instead of ” Oh, look at your tummy, or ew my nose is ugly.” I hate always feeling down about myself. People tell me that Im not ugly all the time… Most of the time I think that they are just saying that… I want to feel it, to beleave it myself!