meet the perfect guy

So when I say perfect I mean idealistic to my .. wants? Needs? They seem like the wrong words.

Well for example we would need to have some thing in common such as music. If they were a big REM fan or Nine Inch Nails fan then we would be halfway there. I suppose open minded , funny.. Someone who likes to talk about serious issues but also can have a good joke about stuff.

Someone laid back and who isn’t afraid of showing affection. I don’t mean buying me roses / taking me out to dinner kind of affection. Just someone who is happy to know me and makes me glad I have them in my life , basically.

I don’t think that’s such a hard goal , haha!

[so yeah if the perfect guy is reading this then email me or something.. Worth a try right?]

With looking that is. If I want to meet the PERFECT guy then I’m setting myself up for getting hurt. There’s no such thing as much as girls want to believe so they have something to hold on to. Sure, love is real, and the happiness that comes with it is genuine too for the most part. Still, many people avoid the fact that they are pushing to be in love just because everyone around them either is or isn’t. Half of the teen love in this world is FAKE these days. that’s why I’m not sure if I want to step into this world and leave reality behind. Although, given a choice, I would. It’s just that risk scares me, even when I don’t have a single thing to lose except my reputation.

As much as people are running around, dropping all of their ongoings to find that one ‘perfect guy,’ I sit back and wait for him to come to me. I truly believe that everyone gets what they deserve, and at one point or another, life will unfold itself to each individual. I’m still going on about my life, at the ripe age of sixteen, with the hope of finding my one perfect gentleman, but he’ll find me. He’ll come to me. All I need to do is keep on keeping on with what is necessary in my life at this present time and date to succeed later on in life, arm in arm with that one person.

of a perfect guy is kinda like the guy on ‘undiscovered’. If you havent seen it it is basically about a guy who is trying to get discovered by his singing(and he is very hot and very good). But i want a guy who has average looks, knows what he wants, plays the guitar, and can melt my heart everytime he looks at me. I saw a guy like this at my church but i think he was like 10 years older than me….but still, he is the kind of guy i look for.

I believe that the perfect guy for anyone is going to be that guy who just kisses your soul everytime you kiss him. For me, that happened when I was in highschool. I’m all grown up now and I still feel the same way about this guy as I did many, many moons ago. Love is stronger than death and real love, agape love never dies, it just keeps getting stronger and stronger. Don’t ever settle for less than you know God wants for you. Measure the man in your life by the way you are growing mentally, spiritually, intellectually, physically. If you’re not growing in any capacity, then more often than not, this is not the right guy for your soul. Don’t worry, your soul will keep prompting you to get it right one way or the other. And eventually you’ll satisfy that urge to be with your special someone sooner or later. I recommend the book “Seat of the Soul” by Gary Zukov, he will explain it better than I can here. Good luck everyone and always remember that no matter what…...God’s Got It!!!!!!

the fact is you have to let things happen naturally… don’t be desperate to dive into a relationship and don’t go for every good-looking guy that passes you by. have confidence and don’t ever let a man take advantage of you.

is probably different for everyone. Me? I believe I have one. I think it is this guy who I have known for about seven years. Ever since I met him, I have been able to connect with certain people better. You see, he and I had this spark. At first, it was kind of a burn-down-half-the-country-forest-fire spark. Now, however, I think it is better: a car-starting spark. We have been friends for about three years, but those three never really felt like a friendship. It felt like something deeper than that, something very few people get to experience. Well…it felt that way to me. See, for the past ten years I have become more of an emotionally intellectual than most people. I can experience so many things in my imagination, and real life for me is huge. My emotions give me so much. They are what spark my choices and actions, and that spark started with this. It has developed into such a wonderful feeling. I am in love with him. I don’t know how he feels. He told me once he was not interested in a relationship with anyone, but when he sees me he always seems to smile more. I’m not hallucinating this. Many people see it. I don’t know what to do about. I have a feeling that if it is meant for us to be together, it will happen even if only for a minute.

Lol I found the man of my dreams he makes me so happy I hope that me and him can spend the rest of our lives together

well here i am… still wanting my “perfect guy”. i’ve found him.. but he is out of reach. he is now dating another girl. and apparently.. i really don’t want any other guy but him. everything about him was exactly what i wanted. we never really “dated”.. but still we had a really “close” friendship to say the least.. that meant alot to me. well now he’s gone.. and i miss him. so im waiting for that perfect guy for me to come along… whether it is the one i think i want… or someone i havent met yet.

He left me