meet the perfect guy

i think he’s all i ever wanted in a guy.

he is able to:
- is able to make me laugh a lot
- tells me i am beautiful, but is not an artist (doesn’t bother me)
- not sure if he would want to be the subject of my drawings and photography yet
- does want to travel the world with me
- not sure how well he handles money yet (he’s not trying to spend what he doesn’t have, at least)
- definitely treats me like the most beautiful person in the world, someone he can’t live without
- is intelligent, but we haven’t had any deep and intelligent conversations yet
- is very optimistic about life in general, and is always in a good mood (or i can put him in a good mood, apparently, if he is a bit down)
- makes me want to be a better person
- supports my career choices, but doesn’t know too much about it yet
- is quite mature
- has an open mind
- haven’t been out to dinner yet, but i’m looking forward to our first time, and i’m confident that we won’t be the “silent couple”
- i don’t think there is anything going on in my life right now that he won’t listen to and care about
- seems to be very open with me about how he feels about certain things, we openly talk about our relationship and our situation
- advice unneeded so far
- seems to be good at communicating with me in general
- is definitely laid back but very outgoing

and heres a few more pluses:
- is gorgeous
- he is amazing in bed
- he can make me smile no matter what
- is Czech and German, has family in Germany, and completely intends on moving to Germany to play hockey after college
- he plays hockey
- he is going to college
- doesn’t care for money and material things too much, but knows that some money is necessary and stressful, hopes to sign a hockey contract and never have to worry about it
- is always up for anything, and will have a good time doing it
- has a ton of friends, and gets along with everyone
- much much more

this is a new relationship, though, and i’m not sure he’s perfect yet. we shall see :)

the perfect guy for me will
- be able to make me laugh a lot
- be an artist, someone who thinks i am beautiful, and wants me as the subject of his drawings, and maybe photography
- want to be the subject of my drawings and photography
- want to travel the world with me
- be good with money (not necessarily make a lot of it, but handle what he does have well)
- treat me like the most beautiful person in the world, someone he can’t live without
- be intelligent, and like to have deep and intelligent conversations with me
- be optimistic about life in general, someone who keeps his head up through tough situations
- make me want to be a better person
- support my career choices, and believe in my abilities
- be mature
- have an open mind
- hold a conversation with me while out to dinner (i don’t want to the be couple that sits and looks around at everything but each other, and doesn’t say much to each other throughout the meal)
- care about the little things in my life, and will want to share the little things in his life with me
- be able to talk about his thoughts and feelings with me, and will listen when i talk about mine
- come to me for advice, and vice-versa
- be good at communicating with me in general
- be laid back, but outgoing

not necessarily in order of importance; they all are important

So when I say perfect I mean idealistic to my .. wants? Needs? They seem like the wrong words.

Well for example we would need to have some thing in common such as music. If they were a big REM fan or Nine Inch Nails fan then we would be halfway there. I suppose open minded , funny.. Someone who likes to talk about serious issues but also can have a good joke about stuff.

Someone laid back and who isn’t afraid of showing affection. I don’t mean buying me roses / taking me out to dinner kind of affection. Just someone who is happy to know me and makes me glad I have them in my life , basically.

I don’t think that’s such a hard goal , haha!

[so yeah if the perfect guy is reading this then email me or something.. Worth a try right?]

With looking that is. If I want to meet the PERFECT guy then I’m setting myself up for getting hurt. There’s no such thing as much as girls want to believe so they have something to hold on to. Sure, love is real, and the happiness that comes with it is genuine too for the most part. Still, many people avoid the fact that they are pushing to be in love just because everyone around them either is or isn’t. Half of the teen love in this world is FAKE these days. that’s why I’m not sure if I want to step into this world and leave reality behind. Although, given a choice, I would. It’s just that risk scares me, even when I don’t have a single thing to lose except my reputation.

As much as people are running around, dropping all of their ongoings to find that one ‘perfect guy,’ I sit back and wait for him to come to me. I truly believe that everyone gets what they deserve, and at one point or another, life will unfold itself to each individual. I’m still going on about my life, at the ripe age of sixteen, with the hope of finding my one perfect gentleman, but he’ll find me. He’ll come to me. All I need to do is keep on keeping on with what is necessary in my life at this present time and date to succeed later on in life, arm in arm with that one person.

of a perfect guy is kinda like the guy on ‘undiscovered’. If you havent seen it it is basically about a guy who is trying to get discovered by his singing(and he is very hot and very good). But i want a guy who has average looks, knows what he wants, plays the guitar, and can melt my heart everytime he looks at me. I saw a guy like this at my church but i think he was like 10 years older than me….but still, he is the kind of guy i look for.

I believe that the perfect guy for anyone is going to be that guy who just kisses your soul everytime you kiss him. For me, that happened when I was in highschool. I’m all grown up now and I still feel the same way about this guy as I did many, many moons ago. Love is stronger than death and real love, agape love never dies, it just keeps getting stronger and stronger. Don’t ever settle for less than you know God wants for you. Measure the man in your life by the way you are growing mentally, spiritually, intellectually, physically. If you’re not growing in any capacity, then more often than not, this is not the right guy for your soul. Don’t worry, your soul will keep prompting you to get it right one way or the other. And eventually you’ll satisfy that urge to be with your special someone sooner or later. I recommend the book “Seat of the Soul” by Gary Zukov, he will explain it better than I can here. Good luck everyone and always remember that no matter what…...God’s Got It!!!!!!

the fact is you have to let things happen naturally… don’t be desperate to dive into a relationship and don’t go for every good-looking guy that passes you by. have confidence and don’t ever let a man take advantage of you.

is probably different for everyone. Me? I believe I have one. I think it is this guy who I have known for about seven years. Ever since I met him, I have been able to connect with certain people better. You see, he and I had this spark. At first, it was kind of a burn-down-half-the-country-forest-fire spark. Now, however, I think it is better: a car-starting spark. We have been friends for about three years, but those three never really felt like a friendship. It felt like something deeper than that, something very few people get to experience. Well…it felt that way to me. See, for the past ten years I have become more of an emotionally intellectual than most people. I can experience so many things in my imagination, and real life for me is huge. My emotions give me so much. They are what spark my choices and actions, and that spark started with this. It has developed into such a wonderful feeling. I am in love with him. I don’t know how he feels. He told me once he was not interested in a relationship with anyone, but when he sees me he always seems to smile more. I’m not hallucinating this. Many people see it. I don’t know what to do about. I have a feeling that if it is meant for us to be together, it will happen even if only for a minute.