Develop positive attitude in all function of life to end up with absolute peace with the world day in & day out. 1 week ago
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This goal is starting to make more sense for me lately, I really really need to keep some people out of my life, I’ve trusted enough people who doesn’t deserve my trust, friends or family sigh3 weeks ago
me: “How did you even get my number?”
crazy stalker ex-boyfriend: “I found it when I was going through my yahoo contacts.”
me: “I didn’t even have a cell phone back when I knew you.”
crazy stalker ex-boyfriend: “Well, I got it somehow.”
OBVIOUSLY, DICK HEAD. I had to delete my received calls for fear I would call him back & yell at him for another 6 minutes. So not worth it because you can’t reason with STUPID. 4 weeks ago
I’ve been leaving my apartment ten minutes earlier in the morning in order to avoid bad juju from my neighbor, who leaves her apartment the same time as me. I feel so much better when I don’t have to see her or her partner, plus it looks good for me coming in to work early. It’s so worth it! 1 month ago
Don’t involve your self to know anegative person he will effect very hard in your life 1 month ago
oooh , this was the hardest one
we went school together , and being friends for 9 years now
the moment he knew what was my ideologies , he turned on me ,
caused me many many troubles
even troubles with my family
after struggling with the idea , i just let him go
i am free now !! 2 months ago
So, back during the Labour Day weekend, I attended several local events including a big themed masquerade/costume ball, along with my current partner/boyfriend.
It was a very hot evening and the event was being held in a 3 story bar/club in downtown Montreal. I was a bit too tired out to do much walking around the club, so I opted to sit near the large open outdoor terrasse near the front of the club, as it allowed for a great viewing area of people coming and going in their great costumes, as well as a nice refreshing breeze.
Over the course of the first hour, I got to see many old and new friends, as they entered through the nearby doorway, with their badges or tickets, and would wave or call them over. It proved to be a very relaxing way for me to spend a good part of the evening. I sent my Sweetheart off to explore, with the only request that he come back and check on me now and then.
(I have an issue with this, because one of my exes used to just “abandon” me during events like this; his ADD meant he would totally lose track of time and I’d practically do without him for the whole night. Not my idea of fun when I attend WITH someone.)
My Sweetheart was excellent about checking in on me, and every so often, I would feel his comforting hand on my shoulder and he would lean down to ask how I was doing and to give me a kiss or gentle cuddle.
I had been doing quite well, however at one point I spied one of my “negative people”, the dreaded “B” (see former entries), as he arrived with a friend at the entranceway.
I mentioned as such to the friend that I was speaking to at the time, and they helped me to discreetly shift my seat so that my back would be more facing towards that way. Luckily, he did not notice me as he entered and I breathed a sigh of relief. I really did not want to ruin a perfectly good evening out by having an encounter with “B”.
I mentioned this whole issue to my Sweetheart when he next returned, and he was very understanding of my concerns. Later in the evening, he was able to reassure me when he said that he had seen “B” leave the premises with his friend.
All in all, the whole situation gave me some mild stress, as I REALLY wanted to avoid any sort of meeting, discussion or confrontation with “B”. And I absolutely was positive, that despite my previous warnings to him that I did not want to have any communications with him, unless it was initiated by me – that he would NOT have paid attention and would simply have ignored it.
So I was really glad once he had left and I could finally enjoy the rest of the evening, knowing that he would not be there to bother me.
I must give props to my other friends and my Sweetheart, who were very supportive and helpful during the evening. It’s nice to know that one has friends that will help you through difficult times and situations. 2 months ago