What a difference it makes! I love not fooling with stupid people! 5 days ago
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Long stories made short: I have this friend who wants to be exactly like me, while at the same time she wants to destroy me. It made our friendship awkward when she began to “change” into this new person over time and everyone began to take notice of it and it made them uncomfortable, as well. People are always better when they’re themselves.
Eventually, I chose the end the friendship like a subscription to a bad magazine because it was clear she was going to keep harassing me on various social media sites…in an attempt to get me to not be myself anymore.
I’ve tried to move on since then, but one of our old mutual friends messages me every so often just to make fun of how hard she’s trying now. He doesn’t really go into specifics often…but he usually just talks about how overboard she goes and how hateful and elitist she always sounds, because she’s still continuing her hateful diatribes that made her lose followers in the first place. I try to ignore this but it makes me sad because I feel partially responsible for her identity crisis.
I know he thinks she’s pathetic and all and he’s not trying to make me feel awful, but I do feel kind of guilty that I might have been the catalyst for this unnecessary change in her life. Even though she still strikes out at me from afar…the thing is, I’m really happy to have unfollowed her because she was a Negative Nancy and I do not wish to be reminded of how unhappy she (or anyone for that matter) still is. It’s kind of a buzzkill. We’ve both established that she’s crazy, but she also needs psychological help too if she’s still struggling with her identity after all this time.
This is the negative person I want to keep out of my life.
I also think she’s also kind of a great reminder for how terribly short life is. 1 month ago
How I did it: I just stood up to a girl that I thought was my friend, and she hates me now, but she made me realize that I don't need any negativity in my life. I told her everything that she said to me that made me angry, and like always, she just says that I need help with my anger. But, bye, not going to deal with her. I see her as a lesson learned. If someone I am friends with always make me angry and judged me on every single thing, leave them. I know I deserve better. Read how I did it… 3 months ago
Negative people are like colds, they can be contagious or there negativity can rub off on you. I need to invent a negative repellant spray. Lol! 4 months ago