Untitled
2 years ago
I am hoping that by traveling within my own country, and beyond, that I will gain understanding about people, which will lead me to be less critical and less prejudiced.
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how do I?
2 years ago
How do I stop being so critical. I mean this is a conglomerate of things, but I manage to criticize (spelling??) people away. Specially my boyfriends…every little thing I think they’re not doing to my liking or that may worry me is me criticizing them. How do I stop it?
light at the end of the tunnel
3 years ago
I do this. I think that everyone in the world is either below me and incompetent or above me and unreachable. Neither is true.
I’m reading I’m Ok, You’re OK by (someguyican’trememberhisname) and it is an eye opener. This pattern started very young and has been reinforced by all my behaviour and that of the people I have chosen to be around. Now I can see that it can be changed and I can like myself and like others at the same time.
Untitled
3 years ago
nobodys perfect so it seems that when others criticize each other its pointless. it doesnt do anything. it may boost your self esteem but for what reason. they ahve just as many flaws as you do. i think int his case however for me, i don’t do it to boost my self esteem i just do it. its hard to explain. talking about people in a derrogatory way is something that just shouldnt be done. i do it though . one more thing i need to work on… but does that make me a mean person? i believe that no matter who you don’t like you need to learn to respect everyone .. i guess i should take my own advice
I forgive myself
4 years ago
very easily now. I have flaws I know, but it’s ok.
I don’t do things I promise myself, it’s ok. not the end of the world, I’ll get it done eventually.
I’m ok enjoying myself when I have free time or taking care of the chores when then need to be taken care of.
The Inner Critic.
4 years ago
Some days I am a very critical person. I can’t stand people, especially those that I think are stupid. Being that way, I then feel critical of myself for feeling the way I do. I ask myself…Why are you so critical of others, when you’re not perfect? Why do you think you’re better than everyone else? What makes you so special? It’s an ugly cycle.
