Jack has gone as far as he’s willing. And when he considers his experiences levelly there are not many more taboo’s he’d be willing to break – weird European defication rituals and full man-on-man action, hard-core S&M: no he won’t be testing those waters, thanks
...but, I havn’t been conservative about sex. Sex is good, experimentation is fun. I’ve been in the occasional threesome, kissed a man, had sex in public, spanked, choked, watched. Not as often as I might of liked – but, hey: that’s sex isn’t it? Never enough.
The boundary I’ve allways had trouble with is the ‘feelings’. When I am in love, I am in love. When I am only looking for pleasure I am looking for pleasure. Casual-sex is truly very rare. In my experience there are far too-many damaged people looking for some-one else to make them feel good, engaging in quick hook-ups as part of a cycle of self-destruction and needyness. It’s a downer. To them I say: leave sex for a time when you’re healthy. Get well, then get laid. Do it for you.
