Stop taking Jerks & Idiots seriously when they try to hurt me, after all they are Jerks & Idiots.

It is really hard sometimes because I feel as if I become a jerk + idiot when someone is a jerk/idiot to me. It really upsets me! :(

and im no longer hurt. it doesnt bother me now.

If I am attracted to him, he is a jerk and an idiot. Therefore if I am attracted I must turn and run, If I am not attracted then maybe he’s the one.

“If you’re going to act like an animal, I’m going to treat you like one.”
This is what a jerk/idiot kid told my friend on Friday morning when she wasn’t even speaking to him. I was really offended because of the way he ALWAYS speaks to the girls in my class, especially me. He always wants to point out the things that are wrong with us and by the time he’s done I’m completely dumbfounded and really overly self conscious about myself.
SO WHY DO I LET THIS HAPPEN???
Honestly I have no clue. I say every morning that I’m not going to let him, or anyone else do this to me, yet I let it happen anyway.
It’s really frustrating.

Most of them just act like jerks and idiots because they like the attention. And they expect you to give that to them when they assault you, and hurt you. I learned to ignore the jerks, and shrug off the idiots. I know who I am, and I shouldn’t care about what they think of me or say to me. After all… they’re just jerks and idiots. :)

i keep tellin myself not to take such pple seriously but every time one of those species put me down i get so hurt and i’d keep thinking about thier stinging comments. its not easy to accomplish this one. anyone wanna help me thru this??