not lose virginity before 16

i feel in love with this boy 2 years ago and this year hes told me how much he lieks me and i was over the moon. we’d planned things to do but we never got together. only on no strings attached basis. one day we went quite far, not all the way but he asked me out after that and then he ‘felt guilty’ and thought he might be using me so he finished with me. i still love him and hes opened my eyes to a whole new type of relationship. he made me have more confidence and self esteem but unforuatly a higher sex drive. i now want sex and with someone who i care about and love but i don’t want to do it before i’m 16. this is a problem because the only reason i didnt have sex with that other boy is because at the tiems where i felt i was ready, we didnt have a condom. if this happens again and we have a condom i know i will end up doing it i’m going to try and have soem self control