Raise my "relationship" standards!

Im soooo happy….. Ive done this…. I know who I am!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know what I want!!!!! I knew I would figure it out!!!

Had a not so good first date and also made sure thast person knew how unacceptable his behaviour was
I would have just “put up with it” in the past… no more
Also another man wanted to have a first date with me… watching the footy at his house – I don’t think so!
So I politely said no thanks

If you accept the drivel you get more of the same

I could have easily got into a situation with someone who I know I’ve fallen in love with, he’s not ready and I just couldn’t go there, even though I adore him.
I’m proud of myself not just taking what I could get and being really aware of what I don’t want too, so for me now only the best will do, I don’t feel I need to compromise my standards as they are good yet reachable and I feel good about having them

It’s about feeling good about myself and having decent self love and worth too that makes this so much easier and rewarding

I have been musing on this for a while now and put it to the test at the weekend, Felt good about myself and won’t except anything below what is my new standard I wrote out a wish list too and people keep popping up, which is fun

I’ve become more picky as I am quite contented by myself and will not put up with stuff anymore

i always seem to get stuck in these relationships with a person who doesn’t fit my dream. then i convince myself that this is as good as it’s going to get and i just have to learn to live with it and be happy that i got somebody. but then i’m miserable and can’t figure out why. i’m not even really sure what i want… and i’m stuck on the idea that the kind of man that i want, won’t want me back. it doesn’t matter that i’m one of the most awesome, caring, funny, charismatic women he’ll ever meet- i’m fat, i don’t have any hobbies or intrests, or time to develop any… (yes, i know that’s not true- it’s just what goes on in my head). it’s funny how when i’m not dealing with a potential love interest, i have all the confidence in the world, but as soon as i start thinking there’s chemistry, i get all … dumb. that’s the only word for it…
i wonder what that’s all about…

so i relized that i needed to raise my standards and i needed to do that for me! and i did it! and in the end what i had right in front of me was what i wanted and needed in my life and through the hardest times of that i learnt so much about myself and it feels awsome, now i know it wasnt completely that i needed to raise my relationship standard but that i needed to find myself and find myself in my partner! i did, well, i am, its a prosess and it feels great! for NO ONE will i settle less in myself! and thats exactly what i know now and needed to know!

I settle for less! and i did that because i didnt relize what i was capable of, and i didnt even relize how good a person i really was! Man, there are a lot of people out there not right for me, and i keep lowering my standards thinking they could be right for me! for this experiance I will raise my “relationship” standards! I AM WOMEN, HELLO NEW ME!!!