become outgoing

I went to my first halloween party ever last night, well worth it! I went out trying to find something to dress up as and 10 minuites before the shops closed I had nothing (thus felt like giving up). But I grabbed the first thing to hand and went with it. Got home and tried on everything but the shirt didn’t fit and had no others (felt like giving up) but a frantic search sorted that out. As I was making my way there I got lost in the city with no one around to ask for directions (felt like giving up) but walked for about an hour in roughly the right direction and made it there. I then realised I’d actually brought very little money and no proper I.D from all the rushing (felt like giving up, as I have done at this stage many times before) But having gone through all the effort I was feeling very determined and went in anyway.

Now the good news, the night was fantastic! Saw many friend that I hadn’t deen in years + someone who’d left my college last year. A couple of drinks were bought for me which was lucky, probably because they were just happy to see me there. And so a night of fun, laughing, drinking and dancing followed, better than a quiet night in I suppose. No money for a taxi home after, so a two hour trek home in the middle of the rainy night followed. Still my legs may be sore but I feel fantastic! Hopefully the first such night of many!

;Must learn to keep these posts shorter;

Halloween partytime is near and while being invited by different friend to different events, I’d much rather sit at home in my comfort zone by the fire with a cup of tea than…. to go out and have fun, I suppose. I’ve now decided that I’ll have plenty of time for sipping tea when I’m old and retired. Best to live life to the full while I still have the chance, carpe diem and all that!

yes to do this not sure how always like my boyfriends but not enough friends as well but started to meet some and make new ones here in shoreline now. so want to do things with them one day not sure when that is.and enjoy new life with any one i know. and become bubbly maybe the word.not shy as every one thinks so must be i am.met that guy on myspace isnt he cute kevin t. anyway sure enjoyed doing that but they think i dont talk very much so never went out again always happens of course too!!

i want to become more outgoing and have good conversation with my boyfriend and other ppl but i am so shy idk wat happen 2 me i was in a terriable n insane relationship n he was extremely crazy exbf i ever been wit. idk wat happen 2 that person i used 2 be….but now i have a new bf n been datin 4 april 30 to now i want 2 be more outgoing and fun n have good conversations with him

I have been a very introverted all of my life but up until recently I haven’t had any problems making friends. I have just moved to a different country and I haven’t changed who I am as a person or the way I do things but I seem to be having a really hard time with people. I think that I am a decent looking human. I have never been called ugly, I have 10 fingers and 10 toes but I still cannot connect with these people that I work with. I just cant relate to them for some reason. I have no interesting stories to tell them, nothing. Maybe it all boils down to me being a boring person. I mean lately I have been just working, eating and sleeping but i have to pay the rent and after im finished working im to tired/broke to do anything else…but im not asked to do anything else…I talk with these people i laugh with them and I am extremely nice and i go out of my way to help them out when we work together. Maybe it is just because i have nothing to contribute. Since my move, my parents have gotten a divorce after 22 years..i am 20 by the way..i have left everything behind to move to a different country with my boyfriend of 2 years…maybe im just still adjusting…and maybe because i am older it is not as easy for me to make friends or maybe its because i am an american in england? I dont know….If you decided to read this giant mess of nothingness rant and feel the need to comment or are going through a similar situation and have any suggestions please contribute because i am sick of hanging out with all of my boyfriends friends…and i want to make plans of my own and go see a girly movie and do girly things! please help!

would love to be more like my uncles and cousin…they are VERY outgoing…lots of confidence..funny…fun to be around…

It’s hard to reach out of your shell and connect with people that you don’t know… Unfortunately it is important to be confident enough to introduce yourself to others… I would love to be able to talk comfortably with people I don’t know and to “make new friends” easily. I know that this is something that I should work on but I’m not sure how.

Im Sort of new in my school.
I dont know a lot of people.
I cant meet people because i wont talk to them!
And when i was in my other school i would know tons of people but when i was in a relationship i would hardly talk to the guy! Its like my mind goes blank!
ANY ADVICE????
I need it

Ecspecilly if im going to be in a movie

YAY! Today I went to a theater camp and I said to myself, “They’re just like you only probably even more scared and nervous.” So I introduced myself to everyone and always looked people in their eyes when I talked to them. I’m so happy! Now they won’t know me as the weird shy girl anymore :]

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