stop being so judgemental

I started to notice that people call me judgemental.
Really? was my first thought.
I thought I’m just being assertive.
But yes I have to admit that I’m judgemental to certain extent.
I judge other’s fasion on the street, I judge other’s behavior, their choice of words,....
I was whining about everything that surrended me.
Then I looked back to figure out why it stated, beucase I was just one of those girl-next-door kind of girl.

One of the reasons is because of drama that I was involved a few years ago.
It’s a long story, but it seems like everybody else around me was noticing who is the bad guy in the situation.
Thats when I realized that I need to see and observe the situation more carefully.
Maybe I took it to far in the name of “observation” and started to judge people with good or bad with a tiny littl information. 6 months ago