Kristif88 is getting ready for bed
I'm off to a good start I think...
2 months ago
I think I’m off to a good start. maybe.
How to be nicer
It made me
Happier 
"Once I realized that people automatically repelled from me when I was rude, it was definately a wake up call to stop being such a bitch."
How I did it: To put it simple, I basically had to wake up and smell the coffee.
I'm young. I have alot to see in the world and I realized that if I'm not living it to it's best potential I'm going to look back and be disappointed that I didn't enjoy being a teenager. Let's face it, some people don't, but I'm too happy of a person to go like that. I'm also a constantly changing person who never stops thinking about life.
I like the way I am and if people want to still judge me even though my intentions are good, what can I do about it? I'm not doing anything wrong!
I'm inspired by the simplest things in life. Like, taking the bus is one of my favorite things to do. I love seeing average people and wondering where they're going, or what's going on in there lives right now. We're all different!
Like any other goal though, this sorta took time! I had to slowly stop being so naturally stuck up. Of course I'm still sarcastic. But sweet and spicy go quite nicely! ;)
Side note: Even when I was still stuck up, I wanted to change. At one point I didn't know how. :(
Lessons & tips: It's hard to give tips on something like this.
You ethier want to be nicer to people, or you really just don't. Don't trick yourself into being nice if you don't want to be! Have good intentions and be genuine! :)
- Look happy! Don't scowl, give dirty looks. You want to look approachable so people actually want to talk to you.
- Smile. It's inviting no matter how you use it! :)
- Think positive. I know, Sounds like everything else people write about being happy, but it's true! Life's short, why spend it dwelling on how much it sucks?
- Be approachable! Think about it, who's the easiest the make friends with?
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This one I added just because I feel like I can be kind of mean to people around me. And I don’t want to be, so I just need to work on being nicer…
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I’m mean, always have been. I used to think it was funny, but now it seems more like a defense mechanism. It’s as if I think people will back away if they are wounded and just leave me alone. This leads to many problems never getting solved, and a very skilled mean person.
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I am just crabby a lot, and I don’t cut people at restaurants and stores very much slack. I have been working in customer service for so long, I don’t see people having any excuse for giving bad customer service. I think of it as, if I can be a ray of sunshine to customers and always go out of my way to give 110% to make sure they’re happy when they leave – everyone should. But, I am making a huge effort to just let it go. Not everyone can be as good as me. Not everyone gets it. So I am working a lot on just letting bad customer service slide.
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It’s coming along, but I am still not satasfied.
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4 months ago
I definitely want to be a nicer person to the people around me as I have experienced how it feels to be treated unkindly. Although it was quite painful, I am glad that it happened because I finally saw through what kind of a person the person who hurt me is. We are no longer friends and I have moved on. I hope she has too. However, the incident and pain have never left me. The personal experience of being hurt has taught me to also be more sensitive to the things I say and do as it could hurt a person deeply.
become a nicer person
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stop being bitchy, annoying, and uncaring.
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5 months ago
I’m pretty nice in general, but I definitely think I can work on this a bit. I feel like a lot of people don’t think I like them, just randomly, so I don’t know if I just look like an angry person, or that I’m acting this way and not meaning to.
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5 months ago
But then I got hardened by bad choices I made… Now I wanna be that warm person once again! >:-(
Boy do I need to do this!!!
5 months ago
I’m tired of people thinking I’m a btch, I’m stuck-up, I’m unapproachable, sensitive and they can’t talk to me or I wouldn’t help them with something….my friends will tell you just the opposite! It’s just really hard for me to trust and be open to people I don’t know well and therefore I tend to be a little cold I guess, and I admit that I can be a bit btchy sometimes….but isn’t everybody??? I have to try to be more approachable!
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