find better friends

I don’t know why..but I don’t have many friends! I am a really friendly person and pretty much talk to everyone. I think it’s because of this that I make acquaintances with lots of people that do not stick around, rather than good friends. Sure I have a few people that I am closer to, but I doubt they will be there forever. Maybe one of them from Uni will be…but who knows.

The other friends aren’t really on my wave length. I am going to sound like a bit of a bitch here…maybe this is the reason I don’t have any proper friends ha…but I am a pretty ambitious person and really want to do things with my life, and they aren’t. Some of them sit at home not working and not doing anything to change it, some are the sort of people that you see on the street and think omg!

I really want a few friends that are on my level, ambitious and I can laugh and have fun with. Maybe have a few holidays with or just chill in a coffee shop…whatever! It doesn’t seem like too much to ask for…but it seems pretty hard to find.

I have found a few sites to meet friend when I move to London so hopefully I will meet some people on there..
www.meetup.com
www.citysocialising.com

Anyone know any more?

i am by far the prettist person i know and all of my friends do not live up to my standards, but i dont know how to tell them to get lost cz they are discusting and baciscally cramping my style.
One of my friends looks like a pig, she is fat and ugly but some how all guys want to do is sleep with her and she lets them.
Another of my friends has really really really bad BO she isnt as ugly as most of them but the smell could have anybody running a mile.
The next girl has a very big chin and gets called chin chinagin and she acts like a 4 year old.
Another girl is quite goofy and has an enormas gap between her 2 front teeth and it really annoys me and she is unbelievably thick.
This girl is as fat as my little finger. she eats like a man and doesnt put weight on and laughs like a horse.
Another of my friends looks and acts like a 6 year old boy, shes tiny and makes our group look even gayer.
The last girl is a complete suck up and cry baby. She attention seeks and moans loads.
I hate my friends because they are all discusting i really need to find some pretty friends that will make me look good with them
HELPPPPPPP??????

so fall quarter, i hung out with these two friends a lot, one guy and one girl, separately. as of last year, when i first met them, i didn’t really talk to them much or hang out with them a lot, only a little bit. but fall quarter, we hung out a ton. at least like 2-3 times a week with the girl, and at least once a week with the guy. it’d be a lot of fun. i’d always look forward to hanging out with them, and talking with them and stuff.

but recently, they’ve just stopped talking to me entirely. i mean, i try to facebook them and make sure they’re still alive… i ask them to see if they wanna do things with me, but i feel like i have to pester them in order to get them to even respond. i actually see them sometimes, but the air between us is just weird for some reason. it’s not natural to go up to them and be like.. hey what’s going on? wanna do something later? people are busy, and they don’t call you back even though you want to hang out. i dunno, i get kinda saddened by it because one quarter we’ll be best friends and tell each other everything, but then about 15 weeks later, they don’t even make an effort to say hi.

i find myself getting intimidated by them because i don’t wanna force them to say hi by saying hi to them, and it just breaks my heart because you know… if i had such good friends at one point, then what’s to say they’ll be good friends or friends, period, with me in a matter of days or weeks? it was one of those things i had hoped to escape once i got to college, but i realize that good things do come to an end, and often not the way that you hope they would, and sometimes you just can’t do anything about it.

what makes me even sadder is that i already have a hard time making lasting friendships, being the introvert that i am. i already knew what that was like in high school, seeing as that i couldn’t and didn’t really connect with the people there. not to say that i’m anti-social. i do like people, just not all the time. and when i find people i like and that like me back, i try to hang out with them as much as possible… but i guess really… fate is trying to mess things up for me.

what am i doing wrongggggg?!!!

I’m not saying i dislike my friends I have a couple that I really do consider true friends,but other than that all the other friends I have seem real fake or extremely eager to “fit in” so they befriend me because of the people I hang out with.I hang out with a lot of people that just feel like aquaintances, its like I’d rather have a handfull of real close friends than the big group of people i hang out with.
Cliques are usually not really friends…trust me.
& People outside of Cliques judge to hang out with you because they assume.
idk its hard.

I’m starting to wean myself off my unhealthy friends; I stayed with them for four years simply because it’s hard to find a new group of friends in high school. It feels good to finally be around people who make me happy and full of life.

There’s good friends out there in this world—we just have to look a little harder.

Not to sound too much like a kindergarten teacher, but let’s all put some positive energy into this goal and focus on the good stuff that’s out there, instead of the crap that we’re still dealing with. =D

As i am getting older it is getting harder to find people to relate to especially at my school full of immaturity. I can not wait until college and to actually meet people who are on the same path as me and relate to me

So, the people I hang out with currently are the worst people in the world. Basically, I always have to watch them get high while either making derogatory comments about Jewish people, or tormenting their cat. All I have in common with them is the fact that I’m a music major, which is not the best basis for me to make my friends on. My friends that I have already back where I did my undergrad don’t like talking to me by any other means than in person. The people I want to hang out with are either busy, “busy,” or they are always working when I am free. I have been doing everything I can to create new bonds with people, but everything has been an absolute failure.

there are all kinds of friends. friends that are good, friends that are bad, friends that listen to your problems, friends who are TRUE. but the sad thing for me is that i can never find the right friend that fits me. well i shouldn’t say that fits me because i know that theres never gonna be that kind of friend. friends come and go….how sad is that. i think they should stay. but life sucks and then you die. wow.

The losing the bad friends part is done, but the new friends part just hasn’t happened. Oh well.. With school comes friendship, I suppose.

I made a brand new email (again) and only added those who I don’t feel the need to replace. Haha. I feel kind of bad that I’m going to be ignoring Cayla on her birthday (Thursday) but she pressured me into drugs and drinking.