Learn to be happy and optimistic again

I have been in a relationship for 6-7 months and I believe that because of my unhappiness I have been pushing her away by being pesamistic about our relationship. I am going to find ways to make me happy so I am able to create a healthy relationship.

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well wen i fell inlove then got screwed over a million times my happyness and cheerfulness dropped. i didnt feel good about my self i need this happpy back.

I honestly don’t know what makes me happy anymore. I think happiness makes me uncomfortable. Why is that? My best friend in high school put it most appropriately, i think… he said one day that i have this strange aversion to happiness. He was right. I never really changed that about myself. Now happiness seems like something i had a dream about once. It doesn’t seem real. I think the last time i was truly happy – with no doubts – was back in high school. This ties in with some other goals. I know i’ll have more self worth when i eat right, and exercise more. And when i learn to love and be loved. sigh i have a LOT to work on!!!

Since I left my old job and started my new job at the Art Museum, riding public transportation, no traffic, my life is alot better!!

With a quickness; I cut out negativity! I love it!!

Just removing some redundant goals.

A few months ago I started to pay attention to what really and truly makes me happy. When my focus shifted, so did my mood.
Do what you love. It works!

in all aspects of my life. I have finally found the that the glass is half full again! JOY!

in all aspects of my life. I have finally found the that the glass is half full again! JOY!

My job is going great now, got a raise and a fat bonus! Met a lot of nice , decent people recently, the weather has been great, everything seems to be going well!