dump my boyfriend

my boyfriend is a dick. We used to fight about shit, but now that we live together we fight way more. He just picks on every thing that i do…. ugh im fuckin over it ALREADY!!

I did it 6 years and finally did it. I am going to get independent. Go from there who know where it will lead.

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I love my boyfriend but he’s being a total ass, he QUITS his job and makes everyone else responsible for his situation, I asked him did he understand the immense burden I and his family must feel for his decision to leave his job, his reply was no. He has BILLS and RENT and I just found out that he has no intentions of finding a job, I did his resume, cover letter and salary history, hell I don’t even have all that, I would put in 60 to 70 resumes a day for him and he would get call backs & interviews, paying good money and he messed all that up, telling me he doesn’t have the money to get their but I know thats a lie b/c I made sure all those jobs were 5 miles or less from his house, he intentionally messed it up. He’s on top of that one of the biggest LIARS, oh God give me strength.

I don’t know whose paying his rent which is very expensive, all this time I thought he was in need only to find out he never intends to go back to work, he jus wants to do his music, sleep, smoke weed, complain about being broke and make me feel guilty for not helping him financially, yes I cut his ass off with the money, he’s flirting online, possibly hooking up, so I finally ask him after 2 months of accepting and supporting his decision of not working what is his intentions with his life is, he blows up at me, growls me out, over talks me, makes me out to be th worst person on the planet, the girl who goes out of her way to make sure he has what he needs but the one time I question him, I’m jealous and unsupportive. I also find out he thought I was going to just up and leave my state to move to him when he has NO JOB, then he throws this guilt trip about that on me. I’m a grown woman, he’s 34, how do I look moving to another state with a man that has no job!

Listen girls, I love my man but I don’t want a lazy, trifling man, I don’t know, I’m confused by his decision and I’m going to slowly pull away from him…I don’t want to judge him for his decisions inregards to how to live his life but I don’t want to be responsible for his life either. I could deal with him leaving his job and life went on as usual but he leaves his job and now everyone is the bad guy b/c they aren’t shelling out money to help, giving him money for child support, for his cell phone…what a loser mentality and then I ask what does that make me?

A man who is kind, generous and sweet on the outside – a total ass on the inside. Great appearances isn’t it?
We were together 1 1/2 yr when we had a baby. Oooooh he wanted to get married sooo much: he asked me to mary him, we got engaged. The preparations were on its way, a child/ our child so desired and loved arrived. The wedding was on hold… 3 1/2 weeks after the birth, he arrived home and said: my mom needs me I’m moving out. HE LEFT HIS NEWBORN AND ME. WEDDING is off. He never manifests himself saying that he wants to live a normal family life. He comes and goes whenever he wants to see our daughter. He can skip a week. I’m the fool…but no more.

I love him. I do but hes a compleat dick. He makes nasty comments about my weight all the time!!!! Im not overweight bt he knows im recoving from an eating disorder and tht i get very sesive about the subject. He filirts openly withy my friends (the ones who flirt back are hardly my friends). He takes his mums side when she calls me a slut, tart, hore ect even tho i im not. He never listens to me or stands up for me. Hes a crap boyfriend and not worth being with. But y do i love him so much???

first of all i need to be selfish and start lookin out 4 no1!i kno this sounds awful but otherwse i will never be happy! i have been with my bf so long now im afraid to hurt him and i feel stuck with him! i need to not be afraid of seazing the day (carpe diem)every1!

i look at you and i love you id do anything for you but yet u still continue to treat me like shit i dont want to hate you yet your hurting me so bad you callme names you say im fat im ugly im useless you make me feel worthless you cheat you lie you give me stds you hurt me physically and emotionally okay so we argue and i get really angry i turn into something nasty but thats because im hurting so bad inside i dont want to love you anymore…but i do and i have the feeling i will do forever.

immigrant boyfriends suck. all they want is to hump you and ruin ur life. he talks shit about my family too and talks about his family like they’re fuckin perfect. I’m so dumping him maybe Ill have the guts to do it soon but it’s 2 weeks till XMAS and he has no where to live. Why do I feel sympathetic for someone who treats me like shit?

We are finally getting along, now that we broke up. We’ll still be friends, but I’m so happy to have my life back.