Jazmine Chilo just livin' while i'm alive
OMG
4 days ago
Just when I thought that I was doing good with this goal, I go back to crying every night again. It’s gonna take alot more work on this goal, but it’s 100% worth it.
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How to stop crying
It made me
Peaceful
 "I looked upon my failures as learning experiences so that I won't make the same mistakes in the future. It didn't matter what other people thought and there was no point in crying and thinking about what I could've done. "
How I did it: There was a period of time when I got super stressed and cried about 4 times per day. I had so many regrets in my life and I felt really inferior. But later I told myself that my life is not as bad as it seemed, and that many other people go through the same thing and make mistakes as well. It's part of growing up and being aware of yourself and your situation. It's never too late to change the negative aspects of your life, and the most important thing is to look forward and do the right things from now on instead of bemoaning the past and the things that you should've done. There is no use crying over spilt milk, and who laughs last laughs the best. This point in time is by far not the last!
Lessons & tips: Through my failures I learned what and why it hadn't worked, so now I have a better idea of what not to do and how to do things better. Look upon your failures as practice so you can get it right in the future, because in order to succeed you must fail. Remember that there are still chances to turn the tables as long as you have enough willpower and are prepared to work hard. Look at things in the long-run and be patient. Other people out there who seem to lead perfectly wonderful lives are going through the same things you are. As for the things you are sure you can't change, try to look at them from another perspective and understand that it's not the end of the world. Always look towards the future and focus on the things you can actually change which will improve your life and your well-being.
Have hope, and may peace be with you! Resources: Read success stories or biographies of people who changed their lives. Also work with disadvantaged, disabled or terminally ill people in charities, etc. or read articles about them on the Internet. You will then see how lucky you are to be you and to have the opportunities to improve your life.
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It made me
happy
How I did it: i decided to look on the bright side of life and realise that i have my friends that are here for me all the time and stop worrying about how i look. so i guess i just laughed well my friends made me laugh so i did. so i just laughed and looked on the bright side and had a good time with my friends, so they have helped me through quite a lot. Read how I did it…
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getting closer
1 month ago
I think I’m getting closer to this. I don’t cry as much and when I do, I won’t let it get to a point where I’m beating myself up or being destructive. I’m realizing more and more the importance of taking care of my body for the long-term. Part of doing that is to not dwell on negativity or negative emotions.
twistedpixie "Life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans" JL
Man...
3 months ago
I thought this would be the easiest thing for me to change about myself, yet I’m bawling my eyes out like a baby right now and I’m so frustrated. I looked at myself in the mirror in the bathroom and told myself to stop, but I’m not sure how. I feel really frustrated and sad. Earlier, I felt really optimistic about changing, now I’m just feeling down. sigh…I should get some sleep. Maybe tomorrow I’ll feel different.
twistedpixie "Life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans" JL
Just Stop
3 months ago
I just have to stop cold turkey. I always cry, because there is a build up of stress, anxiety, anger, and frustration that I naturally want to release, but crying only lessens the pain. Crying keeps me from thinking of the important things in my life that need to change. So, if I’m going to change anything else, I need to stop crying and use that time to write or think.
I need to be more constructive and less destructive.
Sometimes I cry to the point that I dry heave. Sometimes things just hurt so much, I don’t know what else to do, but cry. I’m not a child. I don’t need to have the EQ of 1.
So, my plan for this one is to think or write or read or paint or draw or cook or sew…anything but cry.
twistedpixie "Life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans" JL
Stop Your Sobbing
3 months ago
IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO STOP ALL OF YOUR SOBBINGYES IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO STOP ALL OF YOUR SOBBING OH OH OHTHERE’S ONE THING YOU GOTTA DOTO MAKE ME STILL WANT YOUGOTTA STOP SOBBING NOWYEAH YEAH STOP IT STOP IT
IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO LAUGH INSTEAD OF CRYINGYES IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO LAUGH SO KEEP ON TRYING OH OH OHTHERE’S ONE THING YOU GOTTA DOTO MAKE ME STILL WANT YOUGOTTA STOP SOBBING NOWYEAH YEAH STOP IT STOP IT
EACH LITTLE TEAR THAT FALLS FROM YOUR EYESMAKES, MAKES ME WANTTO TAKE YOU IN MY ARMS AND TELL YOUTO STOP ALL YOUR SOBBING
THERE’S ONE THING YOU GOTTA DOTO MAKE ME STILL WANT YOUAND THERE’S ONE THING YOU GOTTA KNOWTO MAKE ME WANT YOU SOGOTTA STOP SOBBING NOWYEAH YEAH STOP IT STOP IT
I rarely cry anymore 11.June.2009
5 months ago
But i feel emotionless at times. The other day i did break down, i was at home, just thinking and began to cry. Had never felt so alone. I don’t know why i did this – I’ve met the most amazing boy, but why do i still feel alone?
rahzipan doesn't sign into this a lot.
Supposedly, I cry too much.
6 months ago
I don’t think I should have to feel bad about having emotion but everyone seems to think I should.
cant stop
7 months ago
i didnt make the cheer team at my school.
its not as big of a deal as other entries…
but i have been crying for over an hour now.
my eyes are red and puffy…
how do i make it look like im happy?
and happy for my friends that did make it?
HELP ME!
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