Survive my husband's cheating

we were married for 7 years (7year itch) but we’ve overcome this together. Sure I had to work out some things on my own like hateing him/her. this all happend before we became Chritians. Also before I learned about forgiveness, witch I have forgiven him by the way. I know your hurting but the best addvise I got was dont do anything until you’ve calmed down. Once your head is clear then make your choice. I know what I did but this may not be the best thing for you. however you will absalutly survive this lots of luck, your in my prayers.

January 2006 I discovered my husband had been seeing a much younger model for 9 months. It took a couple of months of couple counselling, life coaching, buddhism classes etc to recover my sense of self esteem. Husband continually supportive of my “personal growth and self development”. Then found out December 2006 that he had continued to cheat, lie and deceive by seeing her again! Ok, this time it didn’t hurt half as much, but I seem to lack the strength to convict him and start a new life on my own. Please help.