be confident in myself

I feel like I really need a boost of confidence. At the moment, my friend is very upset at me, and I plan to talk to her on Monday, but I feel so scared. This has been going on for like… 5 weeks. :< And, I tried talking to her like 2 weeks ago, but I was so scared, my body wouldn’t move, or get up. I felt frozen. But, before that, for some reason my body got up on it’s own and walked to her, then my mouth started moving…Words actually coming out of it. I was stunned at what I did. But, that still isn’t reaching my goal. Last time though, I tried to talk to her, I was so scared… I thought words would never come out of my mouth… But, I’m still a bit nervous, anyone have any ideas? D: Please?

I want to be able to stand up for what I want and believe in without hestitation or regret!!! I want to feel proud of who I am and not let anyone bring me down just because I’m different to them!!! I want to be able to walk into a room full of people and not shy away from them but join in and meet new people!!

I so badly want to feel more confident in everything I do with out fear of judgement or rejection from othr people!

I deserve to be valued & respected just as much as any other person out there!

My feelings matter! & if saying how I feel offends someone…well..tough …I respect everyone elses points of view!

I can fake this if necessary but it is not satisfying to do so.
I usually can boost my self esteem up but as soon as someone has something negative to say about me, my self esteem takes a huge dive.

I want to do the things that make my heart swell without fear or recrimination. Be sure in myself to give my opinion and dont care if someone else doesnt agree. Have the confidence to be me because deep down i know that being me is a good thing. I am valuable to me above all else

based on recent events I can mentally “check” this on off my list. It’s been achieved.

a goal like this doesn’t just click and happen as easy as getting your nose pierced or having a paper complete. and some times it takes walking away from before any progress can be made.

signing into 43things a month later…
i am a more confident person. :o)

so much better!! I’ve been doing work experience at a junior school [ages 7-11] and it’s done me so much good! Because I’m older, I get respected by the children and teachers alike but I can still muck around with the kids. I’ve really come out of my shell, I think, and I’ve come closer to people my own age, and from my neighbourhood, from it as well. It’s such a great experience, and there’s still more to go! I’ll be so sad when it’s over, but I’ll take away a lot more than memories :)

that really tested this out for me, although i did help my friend out with some singing a few weeks ago even though i hate singing in front of people so i guess that counts.

I don’t know what happened I* think this could be linked to my weight gain. I just want a couple of uplifting tips