be confident in myself

I so badly want to feel more confident in everything I do with out fear of judgement or rejection from othr people!

I deserve to be valued & respected just as much as any other person out there!

My feelings matter! & if saying how I feel offends someone…well..tough …I respect everyone elses points of view!

I can fake this if necessary but it is not satisfying to do so.
I usually can boost my self esteem up but as soon as someone has something negative to say about me, my self esteem takes a huge dive.

I want to do the things that make my heart swell without fear or recrimination. Be sure in myself to give my opinion and dont care if someone else doesnt agree. Have the confidence to be me because deep down i know that being me is a good thing. I am valuable to me above all else

based on recent events I can mentally “check” this on off my list. It’s been achieved.

a goal like this doesn’t just click and happen as easy as getting your nose pierced or having a paper complete. and some times it takes walking away from before any progress can be made.

signing into 43things a month later…
i am a more confident person. :o)

so much better!! I’ve been doing work experience at a junior school [ages 7-11] and it’s done me so much good! Because I’m older, I get respected by the children and teachers alike but I can still muck around with the kids. I’ve really come out of my shell, I think, and I’ve come closer to people my own age, and from my neighbourhood, from it as well. It’s such a great experience, and there’s still more to go! I’ll be so sad when it’s over, but I’ll take away a lot more than memories :)

that really tested this out for me, although i did help my friend out with some singing a few weeks ago even though i hate singing in front of people so i guess that counts.

I don’t know what happened I* think this could be linked to my weight gain. I just want a couple of uplifting tips

I gave a speech infront of over 30 over my peers. I found the hardest part was waiting. And we were running out of time and I thought I was going to have to wait til tomorrow, which would have sucked. But I made myself get up there, and I gave my speech, and everyone congratulated me and I think I’m going to get good feed back from my assessor too! I’m so glad it’s over, but so glad I did it as well! x

a self confidence email course a while ago. It’s free, so you don’t have to worry about money issues. I’m a lot more confident now, thanks to the course, surprisingly, but i still haven’t got over the final hurdle quite yet. But it does help. Let me know if you want the link x