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destoute removing all the goals involving to much thinking and psychology
How I did it: listening to the wise people (and they are few).There really is no "loving yourself". The only way love moves is through others.Keep it real and just live without too much thinking. It will only hurt you. Help yourself through helping others, being there for each other and be a human among the others. Read how I did it…
cucumber_melon8 is trying to learn espanol :)
How I did it: I just realized that to get anything done and to have anyone else like me I had to love myself first. I picked myself apart before and thought I wasn't __ enough, or too ___ etc. Now I just constantly say positive things about myself and reassure myself that it isn't as bad as I think or as I make it out to be most of the time. This is the only person I am ever going to be so why not love myself completely? I honestly do love the person I… Read how I did it…
solrunner517 Living for the moment
How I did it: While this will be an ongoing life goal, I knew I had largely accomplished it when I realized that there's no one else in the world I would trade places with even if I could. Read how I did it…
SophiaMermaid is TARA!
How I did it: I think maybe I didn't do it in an active sense, but more in a being, existing sense... somehow I just naturally focus on the good side of things, which makes one thankful, which makes one happy with life and oneself! the one active thing I did consciously, intentionally do was finally give myself permission to sever contact with people that were pessimistic. Read how I did it…
cmarks7 is welcoming change.
How I did it: I'm still on my path to self-discovery, but along the way I have found incredible reasons to really love myself. Never have I had a greater feeling.You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. –Buddha Read how I did it…
lemonwater domani un altro giorno nascera
I have hit a turning point. I know I have said this countless times before but I cannot go on on this trajectory of steady increase in weight. I do not like how I look and feel at this weight. I am inspired by my aunt who has lost 50 lbs and looks awesome (she is 68 yo and does not have cancer, HIV, any systemic illness to cause weight loss). I really think it is going to have to be like alcohol, one day at a time, one minute at a time.
I will be updating this goal regularly. I put it here rather than under any of the fitness headings because weight has a lot to do with how I feel about myself. I want to be more disciplined about my weight. This comes in part from my father who criticized my aunt for being overweight, and he also called her lazy.
I think there are 2 similar things here. One is how I feel about my weight = disappointed in myself. Two is how I feel about myself = frustrated and disappointed. I want to be able to love myself but I have a hard time doing this when I am constantly disappointing myself regarding the weight.
Come on please lets do something positive.
CrushedAristocrat is going to do homework
First step is stop smoking, drink less in partys and eat more schocolate! Omnomnom.. Schocolate is love :D
cuteandsmart08 loves days off work.
Things I admired about myself today:
-That I didn’t get an annoyed tone with the ppl who were annoying me
-That I worked hard to get a task done at work that I was asked to do, even tho I don’t particularly like doing it
-I told “him” I would take care of him when he gets back to florida cuz he’s got a cold
-I wore makeup and put my hair up
-I’m a strong woman even tho life isn’t perfect by far
cuteandsmart08 loves days off work.
Things I admired about myself today..
-I didn’t blow up as bad as I could have when Jerry was saying things I didn’t like
-I’m not continuing to text him, even tho I’m still upset
-I am trying hard to reach my goals
-I make a lot of progress every day
-I was honest when the bank made a mistake that could have benefited me
-I called a friend and even pretty much accepted her invitation to go out even tho I don’t think I’ll have a good time
cuteandsmart08 loves days off work.
Things I admired about myself today..
-I went out alone and felt good about it
-I looked cute, even with my glasses on
-I spent a good chunk of my money on gifts for other people
-I did some studying
-I didn’t beg for attention from my boyfriend
-I’m smart, kind, and have good intentions
-I called Jerry’s mom to try to hang out with her
acapella is letting go of past mistakes
I didn’t realise how the majority of my problems had existed simply because I had not loved and valued myself enough.My journey to me loving myself completely is already half travelled as I discover the beauty,love and worth I possess in my heart.All that I need to do is to start loving this beautiful creation of God so that the rest of the world can enjoy all that it(being me)has to offer.
I am ready to start living the life that I was trully meant to have,and it will all start with acknowledging and embracing my self-worth!!
shirleynature Love, Peace & Happiness...& creating a relaxing atmosphere !
I was shopping for fruit & vegetables & saw some lovely tulips.
I hesitated to buy them because they were opening up, but then the manager came along & reduced the price ! I picked up some lillies instead but really loved the tulips so I bought them. Lovely blessings to them & for myself. Thankyou :)
It was nice to treat myself. They really made me feel happy :)
lemonwater domani un altro giorno nascera
for yesterday and today. 2 patients thanked me for helping them. I am getting more caught up. A few no shows. A few things went my way. I was able to leave work in a timely fashion. I voted. I napped. I exercised. My lamps came. Thank you for these 2 days and for letting me appreciate them.
shirleynature Love, Peace & Happiness...& creating a relaxing atmosphere !
Finally I treated myself to a massage after many months !
My scapula had risen up towards my shoulder & is causing headaches so the massage therapist (who was so gentle & made me so relaxed), released the tension & gave me advise to do certain exercises at the gym…rowing pull down for middle & lower scapula muscles.
Also to eat whey protein at the health food store to supplement my diet. He was also a fitness instructor.
I felt like I could have fallen asleep getting the massage.
It went for an hour & was so very relaxing & therapeutic.
I have booked myself in for another 2 appointments in the next 2 weeks before the studen clinic goes on summer vacation until next march / end february 2010. So that is December / January / February until next massages unless I can find a good one that is affordable too in the meantime.
:)
I feel like I almost need a massage on a daily basis. Would be lovely ! Can’t overdo it though ! :)
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incendio asks,
“My self-confidence is in the toilet right now. Any suggestions on how I can get it out? What's worked for you?”
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yes_yes_yall asks,
“how do you know that you truly love yourself?”
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Blackstone
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Leanna64 asks,
“What is the first step?”
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