save my marriage

We are still living apart but getting on great. Just have this hurdle that I cannot seem to get over. I hope that I do not offend anyone by being so open. I love him very much and believe our relationship is good and I am happy with the way things are, I just do not want to have sex. It does not appeal to me and quite frankly, for me, I think I have better things to do. Is this just me or are there any others like this???
Am I being unrealistic to expect him to accept it? We have many calm and caring conversations about this but I think unless I get over this, it could be a deal breker for him.
Today I have looked into hypnotherapy for this, has anyone tried this? Id rather not be popping pills.

Please help x

I am not giving up on my marriage, it’s just that goal doesn’t really fit the situation, and since i promised myself I won’t delete any goals I’m stuck leaving it in the “i gave up” pile.lol.

Doing a lot better.

The marriage is still iffy, but we are both trying; that’s a lot better than before.

I seem to be floundering a bit. I’m of two minds; I want to stay in both worlds, but know I must choose.

One of the women from my past that I had stopped emailing contacted me yesterday. The conversation was strictly platonic, but it started my desires heading in the wrong direction again. I’m trying to let go, but it is hard at times. She came along at a time when there was no intimacy in my marriage. I would be lying if I said I don’t miss this woman, but things are getting better in my marriage and I don’t want to screw it up. It is still difficult for me to not stay in contact with this woman, but my wife deserves my attention and love.

It’s an odd thing, but I’ve found that sometimes when you pretend something is good it starts actually being good. At first I was going through the motions, but each day it seems more real. I think we are going to be okay. I still have my doubts, but I think the ice is melting.

My wife and I had a good talk tonight about our goals and our life together. Then we walked on the beach, talking and laughing – it felt good, like we were coming back.

We’re reading to each other in bed now. Also touching more. We seem to be reconnecting.

Today I said goodbye to two women friends that were fulfilling my emotional needs. Each of those two relationships, though not physical, made us feel alive. Now, though, my wife is trying to reconnect with me and she deserves all of my attention. Perhaps this is a first step upwards to get over the wall my wife and I have built between us. We’ll see.