Feel alluring and approachable

I’m getting the approachable part down. Now to feel alluring.

Sometimes when people approach me and want to make a friendly connection it scares me and makes me want to run. A woman made a complimented my top and I was so caught off guard that I made a short reply and then zoomed away. I’m thinking that I’m old enough to be past this already. But it is what it is, and I’ll get past it when I’m ready.

I made someone smile without trying. A woman walked out of a store and smiled when she saw me. It was a hesitant smile at first and then it turned into a big one. I realized that I was smiling the whole time and she was responding to that. People use to tell me that I looked very serious and I’d always be surprised at this because I didn’t always feel serious. Let my smiles shine!

It feels like I’m becoming more approachable.

Photographers have been exasperated at the elevation of my chin. I don’t know why my chin always goes sky-high. My mom told me that at birth there was a complication and the doctor had to pull me out by my neck [sounds like incompetence to me], and now there’s a long muscle that slightly juts out on the right side of my neck. Maybe this is the cause of it? Or maybe I developed it as a defence mechanism for my shyness? I’m not a snob, but I know that I sometimes come across that way, and it can be intimidating for some people to deal with. I’ve been told that I seem unapproachable. With this goal, I’m aiming for modestly confident and openness. So it’s chin down at all times.