grow up

My grandad died this year, and it meant growing up and giving up!!!

I now live & look after my Nan, who is lost without my grandad.

Giving up – has meant my independence is now limited and things i wanted to do with my life have been put on hold for the moment.

But i feel honored to be with my Nan, she has taught me so much from childhood till now.

Growing up this time around to me means being less selfish about my own needs and to put others who matter first.

I don’t do my homework. I don’t do the cleaning. I speak before I think I lie.

... I’m lost.

I’ve grown a lot this year… but not enough to mark this as done! I still need to become responsible with certain things, such as household tasks and studying.

Right now it feels like everyone is growing up except for me, I’m staying exactly the same…but where to start with this goal?

I am 10 and feel so young and bored!

I have been working now for the past 6 months

I still live my parents but learned to take care of my self i
pay my phone bill and my bus pass and my own expenses but i haven’t payed any cable, internet or gas yet. Is it bad that I’m not helping out the the house expenses ? maybe i should contribute and actually pay some bills.

I also have to learn to pick up after my self and help with the chores and anything around the house

its hard because i expect something if i do the dishes or luandry i have to face the fact is that everyone does this everyday normal chores and dont get rewarded its a part of life

now time for me to work on growing up

well im 24 and myboyfriend says that is time to do things for my self instead of havin it all handed to me and i dont know how to do it and i need help plz help me

Tomorrow I Am Going To Make An Effort To Act More Grown Up And Be Responsible…

Get Up Bright And Early
Go To Work
Get Paid (And Not Spend It On Crap)
Tidy The House Up
Not Spend The Day Talking To/With Drugged Up/Drunken Friends
Not Go On Facebook
Not Eat Crap All Day
Smoke Only 3 Cigarettes
Drink Only Water
Hand In All Driving License And Goverment Forms That I Have Been Putting Off For Months
Get Proof Of Age Card To Stop Any More Kick-Offs.

I’ve been babied and spoiled all my life, which caused me to make BIG mistakes. Now, at 19, i feel as if it’s time for me to grow up and not be so afraid of the world.

I thought I could stay young in mindset for certain things but it just isn’t working anymore. I procrastinate and too often take the easy way out. I need to grow up and start acting my age, which is 22 years old.