Well I think I am doing really well at this. I gave up being jealous because it was driving me crazy. I was just insecure. I can tell he is really committed to this and I decided to be too. I thought threatening him to leave would make him fix his shit, but instead it made him afraid and caused fights. I am being super nice, helping him with his GED, remaining positive, and not hassling him about full time employment. He in turn is cleaning the house completely and doing lots of chores, not complaining about shit, being loving and attentive when I am home, and not asking for anything beyond basics. I am telling him I am proud of him for deciding to get his GED. If he follows through we may have a future, if he gets lazy I guess he didn’t want us that much.