get over a broken heart

OH MY GOSH.

EVERY TIME.

I’m over it for a week and then I get a call from him and WE’RE BACK AT SQUARE ONE.

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... And i dont know if this is one of the worst period on my life, but for sure is very unpleseant.
I left my country to be with this boy, he is 5 years younger than me. I left my daughter in Brazil and even with all cultural differences I wanted to work out on this relationship. Before I started I had a thing with one of my friends, but because wasnt important for me I just forgot about it to move on. Long story short we spent time in Norway, Canada, Italy and Spain, trying to be happy, but I had lots of issues about my past and he started to be emotional abusive with me. Later I had to start a medical treatment and Im still on medication ( antidrepressives and so on ), he figured out about the guy in the beggining and cheated on me before break up with me ( this is one and a half year relationship ). The question is: he is being around me because I live at hes moms house ( im still in Norway ) and being with other girls at the same time, and I have to accept because if not he will ask hes mom to kick me out ( Im temporary disable because of work now ). i want to move on but I even cant walk, he knows that I still have feeling for him and want to keep my as a plan B around forever… I just want my dignity back…

Well it’s not broken

More like

Tipsy.

He made me the happiest i’ve ever been in my life…he was also the only person who every understood me and actually loved me for who i was.I was always told i wasn’t good enough but now i’m told im too good and can do better…
Now all i can feel is pain…I can’t move on it hurts to much…i just want to get over it.

I lost the only person that made me happy..
I’m extremely sad, its been months now, and I cant move on.
there is nothing that moves my life now. I want to be happy again.

I want to stop talking about it
Stop thinking about it
Be able to really, truly move on

A month ago , the love of my life, who has suffered from, depression, and ptsd from the iraq war just packed his clothes and walked out of my life he said he needed to be alone…. only explanation after two years… i was and still am completely devastated, and heartbroken… have been thriugh alot even divorce in the past but have never… ever felt this way… i have a wonderful career as a personal trainer, am able to support myself financially, have three wonderful children…and know i am so lucky and should be greatful for the things i have, but it has been a month and i do not feel any better than the first day…. i feel like i am dying of a broken heart. I just want some releif

Well I recently lost the love my life. Me and my closest companion decided that it was time we part ways. As of right now I am torn apart. I don’t know what to do.

She always knew I was a sad person so she always tried to help me. A few months ago she told me that a website called 43Things might help me feel better about things and I never tried it.

Now that the relationship is over I thought about joining, I did, funny thing is that we no longer are together.

Okay so now I am 18, and have been apart from my ex for 5 months. We were together for two years, and I was constantly at his house. He was my first and i was his and for the first years things were perfect and we were in love. I always had my friends telling me he wasn’t trustworthy nor did he love me, but i turned a blind eye because I didn’t want to believe this.

Then right before we finished school he told me it was over because he didn’t love me anymore. I was devestated and told him i would change just so I could still have him.

Things were great for the summer holidays but then in Feb, we were on a break for one weekend and i found out he slept with another girl. I was devestated, like my whole world crashed and i tried to break up with him. He held me back saying he was in love with me and promised to never do it again. I believed him.

In April I turned 18 and we drifted since then, I still heard stories about him and other girls, but i never believed anyone. He promised me he was loyal.

A day before he turned 18 in August I broke up with him. I had a surpirise for his 18th birthday at my house, but he said he was too tired and didnt show.

I tried to get with him a week later… I did every thing, an even told him i was pregnant just to get him back.

Since then we have mended things. I have found a new guy who treats me and appreciates me for the person I am, but i smetimes still have my ex on my mind. He still calls me, to tell me bout his new girl and the problems they are having. I went to his house last night and his family said they all missed me and all the emotions came back to me. He’s moving house, so when I went into his bedroom, it was like a part of me had left the room that was also mine for the past two years.

I have come to realise I am not in love with him, I just love him and theres a difference. His new girl has cheated on him and he has realised loyalty is hard to come by and he told me to never loose that trait, because he took it for granted. I am just waiting for the day that I dont have any feeling of sadness, anger, hatred when I hear people have seen him out with his new girl or having fun.

i moved to another country for this guy.. some where i had no family, no friens, didn’t know the language..all for him..it all got too much for me and i left to return home… i never stopped thinking about him for 8 months then he came home for a month and we got back together. we argued alot and i know we’re not good for each other any more but now hes just left and i might not ever see him again and i just want to move on but im scared it will b a repeat of the last 8 months…i feel im in a rut.. i use to be so happy and carefree and fun loving but these days i just feel drained and i feel like ive lost my spark..i just want to start enjoying life again.