be more sweet

i dont really see myself as a sweet person and i think its because i have a lot of anger inside due to my parents treatment and how they always walked all over me. so i have always have to fight and struggle to defend myself and maintain inner balance and peace. so i probably come off as being too assertive. and the anger is so imbeded in my inner core it has become second nature. its not the kind of anger where im bitter or lash out at people or anything. im a nice person, cordial and civilized but im not a true sweet person. since all of this happens on a subcontious level, i think i need to bring it to a concious level so i can gain control over it. its gonna take time.