fall in love with my husband again

I woke up this morning confused. i asked myself do i still love my husband? i guess this wasn’t sudden. we have been separared for quite some time. we just haven’t said anything. the few times we do speak, all we do is argue.
i don’t know what to do. we agreed over the phone today that it is over. The truth is i do realize that i love him but i dont think that i’m inlove with him. i want to work things out, but i am just sooooo exhausted. Frustration seems to be getting the best of me. is there hope? God, i pray there is because afterall i do know that i love him. i don’t want to give up, yet i don’t want to fight alone! any advice is welcomed! :(

it is what it is…i miss the way we were.

that I finally got tired of it and when I met the sexiest sweetest man I have ever met in my life, I dumped my husband for him.

This sweet precious man that I am still in love with but has a few more issues than my husband…he is not a Christian and has no desire to be. He has some real addictions that he is in denial about.

My husband on the other hand has repented as much as he knows to do and has started treating me much better. But when I came back to him, he couldn’t stop watching every move I made so after 3 years, I left him again for the younger, sexier, much more pleasant personality boyfriend again. He lived 300 miles away so it was easier to stay away from him. My husband wants to go to the Gary Smalley Institute to restore our marriage. We should have done that first thing but we didn’t. Testimonies have noted that the Gary Smalley Institute is a wonderful program that does help couples that come in hating each other, come out deeply in love more than they have ever loved each other.

Will I ever be able to put the man that I love more deeply than anyone on the shelf (give him to God) and love my husband again??? I am so sorry to keep hurting this sweet precious person… Lord help me, I do want to do your will.

My husband and I have only been married 6 years. Recently I’ve haven’t felt the same. I can honestly say I don’t know if I still love him. I want to feel the same as before but as each day goes by I feel more and more distant from him. How do I fall in love again? It’s to the point where spending quality time together and talking just isn’t cutting it. I just need more.

We just got to always make time for each other. Through everything, he really does love me very much.

...and I think it is killing our relationship…no passion!!! no communication…just, “how was your work, today” how did this happen?

He took me out to a quiet dinner for two. After dinner we stopped by one of the most beautiful city parks in the nation. We walked around the georgeous lakes and natural bird sanctuaries and talked. We also sat on a swing together and talked. He put his arm around me while we watched the little children play, laughing about when our kids where little. Afterwards we came home to a quiet house, kids where away for the evening and spent time in bed together. Was like old times. =) We have been married this September for 21 years. Our girls are ages 23, 19 and 13.

I want to feel it…not just say it!

My husband Bob is the only reason we have made it thru these last years. Because I’m unable to work due to an injury. He works two jobs so we don’t lose our house and our bills are paid. I miss him when he is working. We used to get home from work and eat dinner. Spend time curled up on the couch or go out to the movies. When we were dating, then living together before we married my family used to tease him. That he spoils me but he always would say (No I’m not spoiling her I’m treating her like the princess she is) Which is the opposite of what I really am. When we first met thru his brother. I was like this will never work. I’m a spit-fire with the temper to go with it. And he was laid-back. At the end of the night I wouldn’t even give him my phone number. I did give him my address. My exact words were so when you wake up tomorrow and figured that you and I have nothing in common. I don’t want some brood calling me months later because she went through your wallet. The next day he called, he got my number from his brother and being the b*h I hung up on him. Later that day flowers arrived with a note asking for a second date. It was a dozen of yellow roses, they are my favorite. We had been together 7 years before we got married. We have been together 13 years. My son was 5 years old when we met. And Bob did a great job in helping me raising him. Bob had some diffuculty when Ryan hit the teenage years. I on the other hand had a blast with Ryan’s teenage years. There wasn’t anything he could get away with- that I hadn’t done when I was his age.But now that Ryan is 18 and working two jobs and getting ready to leave the nest. I need to work on my relationship with Bob. We are more like roommates than husband and wife.

I want to feel it and not just say the words.