been there done that:
longest = 2 yrs feels like it never happened
currently going on 4 months. but it feels longer.
time isn’t the most important factor. it’s how well you know each other.
People doing this are also doing these things:
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i usually have these pretty long (1.5 to 3 years) relationships or quick hook-ups (1 day to 2 months). i think dating style is an issue when trying to accomplish this goal. where it seems ambitious for someone else to get to this point, it is inevitable for others.
Okay, so this has officially been done. My relationship ove over the last almost-8 months has been abit rocky, but we just made the commitment to work as a team. As funky as it sounds, it feels really good!
It’s fantastic being in love!
Currently, this is listed at Goal #2, however, I think I need to accomplish Goal #3, first: improve the quality of men I date.
You see, it has come to my attention that while the men I date are relatively stable—proper jobs, responsible, and intelligent, they are just completely selfish want to be in touch with my body more so than my self. What gives?


