TalkerlolMore Outgoing Now
Wow people I didn’t think I could get this far! I used to be really shy where I wouldn’t even talk to other people, or join in convo with my friends. But now im more confident, but not over confident just enough to know when to speak up or speak if needed. I actually start convos now, and try to laugh which I never did before in turn makes me enjoy the convo even more. What I did was believe in myself. Not only believing in myself but to not care what people thought of me or what I said, that was one big problem I had that made it harder for me to become confident because I thought that if I sounded stupid then or would say something stupid then I wouldn’t say what was on my mind. Also listening to what other people said helped, building better relationships with other people also helped me to build up my self esteem which in turn let me be more confident and know what other people like. Anyway I think you get where im at, have faith, believe in yourself and don’t judge yourself on what others judge you on, if you do, that’ll make you less confident of yourself and in turn you’ll feel more shy or insecure, and what you’re trying to accomplish is to become more confident. Goodluck and wish you the best! 1 month ago
