i’m about to begin a new job and am scared out of my mind. it involves chemistry and i feel that i don’t deserve this job because i’m “not good enough” at it and am not confident enough. but i also have to realize that soon i will understand the material more clearly and hopefully not make mistakes. but i know that mistakes come with learning too. oh, i’m so confused!
How to have more confidence
How I did it: I just started to tell myself that I am beautiful and sexy every day, it worked for me. I think that the key to this is doing things, even thoguh it may seem very hard. You'll feel better afterwards, I promise.
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Jiggly_Jordan motivated.
I have always had trouble with self-confidence. I want to be able to look people in the eye when I speak to them and be confident with what I’m saying. I want to be a leader that people like to follow.. If I can become more sure of myself I will gradually become more confident and a leader.
April will turn fifteen in December. 8D
I don’t have to hide behind my hair.
I don’t have to wear a hoodie outside.
It’s okay to think I’m pretty.
It’s great to finally have some confidence. :)
I think I have accomplished this goal. ^^
DreamAchieve21 Im organizing my information.
hmm, confidence to the maximum level!!!
I want to go into any situation believing that I can accomplish my goal and that I am what I believe I am no matter what anyone else thinks. I want to do this in a humble way.
lacking confidence is affecting every aspect of my life.I know I can’t continue like this but there is nothing to do about it.perhaps I should try spending more time among people.
April will turn fifteen in December. 8D
I’m already making progress. :D I used to tell myself how bad I thought I looked, but when I stopped I saw that… I don’t look bad. ^^
I’m recovering from sub-clinical anorexia and I guess that gaining confidence is part of that. I’ve always felt pressured to do well and no matter how well I do, I’m always scared that suddenly I’ll slip up and my life will be ruined. I get nervous meeting people and trying new things because I’m afraid of failing. I know this lack of confidence isn’t helping my health, either, and I don’t think I’ll be able to commit to a healthy lifestyle (food included) unless I can walk down the street in shorts and not think “Omigod, everyone can see my huge, wobbly thighs!”
I need to regain my confidence in order to do the things I want to do in life. Simple.
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dancedance asks,
“i hate standing infront of people and talking even infront of my whole family i start to shake and i cant say what i want to say, at school its even worse.i want to be able to stand infront people and be confident can you help?please”
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